secret

[tracybabe]

who the hell is so worth keeping secret that hes willing to chance sacrificing his relationship with the woman he claims to love? why go out all day spend over 200 dollars come home with 40 dollars worth of stuff and not tell me where the other money went or who he was with? is his secrets so important to him? does he really just not have any balls

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[stainedorchid]

What he did was bullshit, a crappy thing for anyone to have to go through. However your overreactibg and sweetheart, I remember when you've fell this disrespected and worse even if you don't, so don't pull the drama card. You guys need to stop acting like children with resposiblitiesand take care of the kids and eachother, yes that means you being accepting of what he needs, yes it means that he is not a 17-20 year old single man without children and needs to act accordinngly, it also means the drama needs to be cut down drasticly. I love you both very very much, you need to talk and share, even roommates do that. *snuggles*

[pizzaisevil]

Look, you have no right to tell her to grow up. What he is doing to her is not ok in any way shape or form. She should not put up with this bullshit. He is apparently a scared little boy who doesn't want to commit to anyone or anything. He's using bullshit from the past to try and escuse himsel from stepping to the plate. She is not being overreactive. You are being a cold bitch. This is not the drama card, this is trying to reach out.

[stainedorchid]

Your wrong, you dont know enough about the situation apparently. Not to mention I dont appriciate being called names by people who are supposed to be my friends.

[pizzaisevil]

Well honey, you really have the right to be concerned. He has a right to his privacy but only to a point. If he wants privacy he should accept it with loneliness, because you have the right to question him when he gets secretive. I propably have the least right of anyone to tell you who to walk out on. But this one......I would.

[leshrac]

if he were attempting to buy you a gift as a suprise for some time in the future would you want him to tell you? Thiers a different between keeping a vile secret, and buying something secret.

when he goes out and spends an undtermined amount of money on christmas presents do you expect him to tell you everything he bought because not doing it is keeping a secret?

perhaps you should give it a while and see what comes of it before you decide to react.

just a thought