I'm so sorry, sweetheart. Unfortunately, speaking from personal experience, it's going to get worse before it gets better. :( And you're always going to miss her. However, there will come a time when you aren't crying every day...I promise. Hang in there, call me if you ever need to talk/vent/go crazy. I love you! ~ Jaimie
Loss and grief
anonymous
March 31 2006, 13:06:01 UTC
Your not weird,strange or diffrent I went thru the same thing when my dad died. I still talk to him ya know it makes me feel better and believe it or not my mom has felt him more then once while driving to see the family on long trips. She swears up and down that he was right there in the passenger seat any time she was in a dangerous place,like driving down the mountain or heading to California to see my sister. It's normal to say good bye to a loved one no matter how long they have been gone so go easy on yourself in time it will get a tiny bit easier. The pain will never leave you I am afraid to say and it will hit you at the weirdest times. A sound sight smell all these things will trigger a loving yet painful memory. Cherish these moments for in remembering your grand mother you are just expressing your love for her even when you cry. If you want to chat just give me a holler sometime. Ethan
I would have gotten out by 1980 (at the expense of my family) if they didn't slate me for this, set up Damien Omen, Quasi-Holocaust to justify it and the "ugly fall
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