i was right where you are, three years ago. i asked for the divorce, with the question "are you still in love with me?" being answered by "i still love you, but i'm not IN love with you any more."
its hard for both parties. the best you can hope for is to be able to be friendly since you do have a child together. wolf and i made the decision that the beastlyboy would be better off with him through high school...because i may be a great mama, but i dont know how to be a dad. he's off to college this fall, and i think between the two of us we did a bang-up job.
and remember to count child support into the equation (even if you're still sharing living spaces) because god knows that can count up fast.
*hugs* good luck, hon. and i'm sorry that it happened.
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its hard for both parties. the best you can hope for is to be able to be friendly since you do have a child together. wolf and i made the decision that the beastlyboy would be better off with him through high school...because i may be a great mama, but i dont know how to be a dad. he's off to college this fall, and i think between the two of us we did a bang-up job.
and remember to count child support into the equation (even if you're still sharing living spaces) because god knows that can count up fast.
*hugs* good luck, hon. and i'm sorry that it happened.
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