definitely a huge difference in communication, there. :(
you cant say "dont tell me anything about X" then get all shocked when you ARENT told minor things.
to me, running into someone at the store and talking for a few minutes? minor. barely a blip on the radar. forgetting to tell that you had a date night? that's an issue.
chris and i used to have Issues, because he'd talk to his otherlove on the phone as he drove home...then get mad because *i* didnt know something. and when i'd call him on "ok, when did you tell me?" and he got the "oh shit" look right after he said "on my way home..." yeah. *eyeroll*
i hope you get things straightened out. that sucks. *hugs*
Beef ... really beef. I've been thinking we need a mens night. You see in the movies groups of men get together and BS ... play cards, talk about relationships . drink . you know the usual bullshit.
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you cant say "dont tell me anything about X" then get all shocked when you ARENT told minor things.
to me, running into someone at the store and talking for a few minutes? minor. barely a blip on the radar. forgetting to tell that you had a date night? that's an issue.
chris and i used to have Issues, because he'd talk to his otherlove on the phone as he drove home...then get mad because *i* didnt know something. and when i'd call him on "ok, when did you tell me?" and he got the "oh shit" look right after he said "on my way home..." yeah. *eyeroll*
i hope you get things straightened out. that sucks. *hugs*
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I think this is needed
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