Funny Predicament

[leastconcern]

So, I recently had to deal with a few things. I haven't posted here in a while so I will give a quick recap of moi:

Dani, 20, in polyamory triad relationship with two individuals, another FTM and a genderqueer bio/cismale.

I have many friends in the LGB (no T mix sometimes in Boston/South coast) and I was going over my wishlist with some buddies on

Comments

[melsmarsh]

They only wouldn't accept me when I was just coming out, then after a few years they started to accept me as being one of them even pre-T and pre-op.

[rowanhood]

Are you kidding? Cultural misappropriation? oh my god...

This is your tattoo, symbology you identify with and represents something important to you. And you're supposed to be worrying about confusing straight people? That is just idiotic.

Other gay men will typically have issue accepting you as a man unless you look like one. After passing for a few years, I gained general overall acceptance and live and work happily in the gay community.

[ftmichael]

I agree with the previous comments, but I wanted to add that you should post this to any_bodied_men as well. :)

I'm near Boston too. Some stuff you should check out if you haven't already, if you're interested in getting to know cool people:
http://sojust.org/
http://masstpc.org/
http://gendercrash.com/neighborhood.htm
http://geocities.com/ftmcompass/ - first Thursday of every months, 7-9 pm. Contact via the website for location info.

[leastconcern]

Alright, going to crosspost it now.