okay so this has to stop-
I get it, I really do, I understand that the need to be proven right about Larry Stylinson or whatever is so overwhelming sometimes and I get that some people think that the two of them 'want' to be out in the hypothetical situation that they are actually together-
(honestly, whenever I 'think' they're together, I imagine that having to answer questions about yet another private aspect of their lives would be dreadful, ugh, as if anyone wants to be subjected to being asked who tops and who bottoms and whether they do anything kinky on international TV)
- but lets just say that they are together. Clearly, they don't want everyone to find out as evidenced by the fact that they haven't fucking told you.
Lets say that. Okay, now imagine that they haven't told everyone, because it would get out if they did-
- and then imagine that you were outed by some fucking anonymous member of the community invading on a very private moment like no that's not cool okay without being offensive or cliche or whatever it's 'coming out of the closet' not 'having the entirety of tumblr dragging you out kicking and screaming and crying and without your fucking permission'
it's like no one understands how disrespectful it would be if someone literally forced them to show their relationship-
it's like no one understands that it's just as disrespectful as making them hide it.