I know this sounds kinda stupid, but I assess every relationship (or near miss, or whatever) to look for my contributions to that relationship's failure
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I don't think you did anything wrong. People are just people. They make decisions based on their own internal feelings and sometimes there's nothing you can do about that-- no matter how incredible you are. She's missing out, and if she can't see that, then it's her loss, not yours.
I dated a guy once who did everything right, and was such a wonderful person, but I went my separate way because he just wasn't right for me at that point in my life, and I knew I'd hurt him in the long run and he didn't deserve that. I sometimes wonder what would be now had I stayed, but he's happy and I'm happy, and though he may not have seen it then, he does now. And that's what really matters.
You seem like a real charmer, so Miss Right will come along. And she apparently wasn't it. Her decision may have saved you a lot of heartache in the long run, and now your free for other conquests. Better ones.
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I dated a guy once who did everything right, and was such a wonderful person, but I went my separate way because he just wasn't right for me at that point in my life, and I knew I'd hurt him in the long run and he didn't deserve that. I sometimes wonder what would be now had I stayed, but he's happy and I'm happy, and though he may not have seen it then, he does now. And that's what really matters.
You seem like a real charmer, so Miss Right will come along. And she apparently wasn't it. Her decision may have saved you a lot of heartache in the long run, and now your free for other conquests. Better ones.
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