Just say what you mean already!

[trevd]

So there's this guy I used to see at my gym. He's absolutely stunning. He's tall, really muscular, nice tattoos. I never bothered approaching him because he was so far out of my league I knew -- KNEW -- that he wouldn't grace me with a response. Well, that is until a few weeks ago when he emailed me (he got the address from BigMuscle) to tell me

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[gonesurfin]

"I'm not gonna ditch friends for a cheap hookup..."

i aspire to that one day. :-)

(just saw ya while browsing through friends-of-friends).

[trevd]

Yeah, but it's probably not the best for my sex life...

(Nice to meet you BTW)

[gonesurfin]

actually it does wonders for the sex life.

it's the friendships that may suffer. :P

(nice to meetcha too)

[gonesurfin]

oooh. although i prolly shoulda warned ya - my lj isn't always rated "G"...

[pharmbear]

These guys are everywhere. I can't begin to understand them and it happens a lot. I would try to forget about him.

[trevd]

Well trust me, I'm not gonna put a lot of effort into him. If he makes it clear what he wants, and I'm available, then fine. But I'm not gonna go out of my way.

And yeah, what's with these guys? I mean, if I'd approached him and he were just too chicken to say no, I'd understand. But him? He was the one to contact me in the first first place, and he was the one who messaged me Monday night. He's initiating contact and then waffling. Annoying.

[chunkystyle]

Yes I played your part in this scene before too mister.
Hot man, great build, all the right boxes ticked physically as far as I was concerned....

And yeah, as confusing as it was, I just decided to move on, as I deserved to be treated better, then being jerked around in this manner.

What it boils down to i believe is that; all they wanna know is they can have you "if" they want to. Thats all it is...an excerise in self ego boosting.

Let this flake go, you deserve better.

-Charles.

PS: hello to you fom OZ