Preach me.

[trickyastampons]

Anais Nin once said, "The world isn't as we see it, we see the world as WE are." or something like that. It's so true. Lately I feel like everyone has a problem with me, that I haven't met an expectation or I will automatically fall right below the satisfaction line no matter how hard I tried to please someone. It's ingenious, in perplexity and

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[snowinginjune]

Are you happy with yourself?
Are you hurt?
Are you in anyway harming yourself?
Are you in pursuit of your happiness in order for you to become someone you're happy with?

if you are happy with yourself
and is not hurting or in anyway harming yourself
and you are pursuing something you want to accomplish

then that is enough no matter who says what

as we grow we realize new things about the people and place around us that we didnt want to realize, but its inevitable- people change, we change

we grow and thrive
or wilt and perish

dont let the other vines get you all tangled up, choke you and wilt you away either.

like what my mum used to say, "dont let them spoil your insides."

and as always i'm always there to listen

[trickyastampons]

I would say I'm not deeply disappointed with myself, but rather, I'm too impatient to enjoy the little things as I'm trying to change. Sometime's I'm so focused on change I'm unhappy. I just need to sit back, huh?
You're a smart woman, thanks for the advice.