It doesn't make you a bad person. You carry him in your heart, and you honor him in your life - it may not be a mass for the masses, but it's of no less value.
T...don't you dare think how you deal with any of this in your own way is wrong. We all deal with grief in our own way....what is right for you isn't right for anyone else but you. It's the most personal thing in the world. And you have your memories and your love in your heart...that's what you feel. I'm going to give my dad a call tomorrow just to let him know I love him and also to honor your very special daddy. *HUGS* love you lots.
I'm glad to read you're doing ok. Not having a mass said in his name does not make you a bad person. Everyone grieves in their own way. I wish that you could go to the cemetery. Maybe you could find time on the weekend to go, or maybe you could go to a place that was special to you and your dad or just to your dad. It might be just the thing to make you feel close to him. I will most definitely hug my dad and tell him that I love him. I do it every day but tomorrow I'll do it just for you. **sends lots of hugs**
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I'm glad you made it through the year and have had J by your side.
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It doesn't make you a bad person. You carry him in your heart, and you honor him in your life - it may not be a mass for the masses, but it's of no less value.
Sorry I missed you on my last swing through... :)
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I missed getting to see you, once again. Next time, I promise.
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We all deal with grief in our own way....what is right for you isn't right for anyone else but you.
It's the most personal thing in the world. And you have your memories and your love in your heart...that's
what you feel. I'm going to give my dad a call tomorrow just to let him know I love him and also
to honor your very special daddy.
*HUGS*
love you lots.
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Thank you for the hugs! Sending them right back your way.
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