THE LIST WAS NOT MADE BY HIS FRIENDS BUT BY HIS MOTHER
and i might should be mad cuz i'm probably not even on it..but theres no reason to get mad at anyone for trying to make things safer for him you know
on sunday over 100 people came to see him...and he was so exhausted..so therefore we cant jeopardize*SP his health..i'd much rather him recover soon because i didnt go see him and wear him out than worry about whether or not i showed up..
i'm not trying to start drama..but this is not about us...it's about vincent and his health and if a list has to be made in order for everything to run smoother dont you think we should suck it up and try to humble ourselves and try to figure out a way to make things easier, not harder on him
i'm sorry for preaching or whatever and this is not just addressed to you...but to everyone who has a problem with Loraine caring about her son and doing what she and the doctors feel whats best..
I agree.. and I hope this isnt to me.. cause I explained How I thought prayer was more important and I also stated how people can be told in nicer ways then rolling your weyes and getting mad.. thats when people become angry.. there are better ways of this being handled.. His mother is doing a good thing. I discussed with my own mom how she would do this before she ever heard of his mom doing it when she found out about all those people going.. I mean I have not a problem with the list of his mom.. just how people are responding to peopel who care.
btw i'm not angry at anyone..and i'm trying not be snobby..but that was my feelings to all the drama that has gone down about this stupid list you know..
I am not angry either.. your not snobby its your opinion .. I think like I said its bull shit vinny wouldnt want drama over this.. and peopel should be more mature with it because vincent is going through somethign NONE can understand so praying would be a better choice for most. jesus can do more through a prayer then we can do being with him.. THIS IS CRAZY btw. :(
I love you caroline.But you know how I feel girl. I think fighting over this is crazy, and i know your not doing that. But I sort of disagree with erica. I know that Vincent wouldnt want only a few selected people to come and visit him, but hey maybe thats just me. I mean...if TOO many people came to the hospital to see him then the nurses could simply say "im sorry, but he cant see anyone today" , instead of them saying "im sorry, but your not on his friends list". Ever wonder how people would feel if that was said to him. People are going to the hospital to show support, and let vincent know that their there for him. But again...im just stating my opinion. Honestly, im probablly not going to go to the hospital, but that doesnt make me less of a friend to him.
caroline i 3848927 percent understand where your coming from <3
well they did say too many people came to the hospital and that this is part of the procedure...and he gets really tired when a whole bunch come and see him...but i just want him to get better if that means not getting to see him in the hospital anymore because of the expertise of doctors...and getting to see him at home sooner...then we should follow the rules and not complain considering...those doctors and nurses in chapel hill are experts and his mother knows him best
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and i might should be mad cuz i'm probably not even on it..but theres no reason to get mad at anyone for trying to make things safer for him you know
on sunday over 100 people came to see him...and he was so exhausted..so therefore we cant jeopardize*SP his health..i'd much rather him recover soon because i didnt go see him and wear him out than worry about whether or not i showed up..
i'm not trying to start drama..but this is not about us...it's about vincent and his health and if a list has to be made in order for everything to run smoother dont you think we should suck it up and try to humble ourselves and try to figure out a way to make things easier, not harder on him
i'm sorry for preaching or whatever and this is not just addressed to you...but to everyone who has a problem with Loraine caring about her son and doing what she and the doctors feel whats best..
btw i'm using this as livejournal post
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caroline i 3848927 percent understand where your coming from <3
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