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[trinity_sama]

well we told him. at first he was eerily quiet. he just got up and asked us to let him know when we were leaving. and he also asked us to leave sooner rather than later. it hurt that while we were crying he seemed disconnected. and later when he thought we couldn't hear him, he did what he does best: make hurtful comments about how gabby and i are

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[jenanoelle]

In families like yours, it's really hard to separate yourself from all of the emotional crap that's going on.

It seems like to your parents, it's almost a game of winning your love.

For me, though, the real bottom line is that you shouldn't be living in a place where you would ever have to fear for your lives. (I would send him letters, if he's unwilling to talk about the anger issues. He'll read them, and he may even take them to heart. You never know.)

Is there any way you and Gabby, or even you and someone else, or a combination of the two could get a place without your parents being involved? That would be the ideal solution, to separate yourself from your parents issues. I know there are government programs specifically to help you pay rent, especially in higher rate places.. or even food stamps.

If you ever need someone to talk to, you know where I am..

*hugs* just try and do what's best for you, not your parents. They'll survive.

[becky_kitty]

I agree with the Calvin