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tripplenix

a more serious entry

Oct 27, 2004 11:11

well i spoke with my father today for over an hour which is something we don't do much because i don't get along too well with my parents and found out some serious shit that's going on with my sister. the girl is 15 years old and her best friend is 14, the two of them together have been getting into some really bad shit. it was pretty clear that ( Read more... )

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en0trance October 27 2004, 09:05:10 UTC

That sucks. =\ Your sister is just being young--most people go through this crap. Your parents do need to enforce rules tho, or else she will wind up getting pregnant, esp. if she's all caught up in trying to impress people by the way she looks. She's obviously looking for attention.

tripplenix October 27 2004, 10:28:08 UTC

yeah that's the scariest possible thing right now, my sister getting pregnant at age 15 by some scumbag.

sprflychic44 October 27 2004, 11:36:21 UTC

Randall, dont forget it taktes 2 to tango... unfortuantely you cant jsut have a one sided view on this...

sprflychic44 October 27 2004, 09:59:01 UTC

Wow Randall... I have much to say, im sure a lot of it you wont particularly like, but listen to it anyway ( ... )

tripplenix October 27 2004, 10:51:59 UTC

she's 15, i'm not going to abide by the "let her go through the phase" thing i'm sorry. i know you turned alright but i know WAY too many that didn't. 18-19 and drinking, whatever, that shit happens. but being 15 and sneaking around doing shit i'm scared to even think about aint right.

as for the clothing, even her own friends say she dresses too scant. don't need to be advertising the goods at her age.

sprflychic44 October 27 2004, 11:17:20 UTC

Randall, im going to tell you, you risk pushing her farther and farther away if you become too bossy. I know you want to help her out and thats admirable of you. Yes 15 is young Randall. Im not denying that. But sometimes things do have to run its courses. And this maybe one of those times. I know you are really mad and upset, but all you can do is try, and she continues, then she needs to learn the hard way, jsut make sure shes on birthcontrol.

As far as the clothes, she will learn that she will get scummy guys from the way she dresses eventually... and she will want to change.

diamondroses October 27 2004, 11:46:38 UTC

I definitely agree with Lauren that she needs to be on birth control. As a girl who went through this sort of phase at that age I can tell you that if she wants to have sex, she's going to have sex ( ... )

tripplenix October 27 2004, 12:46:50 UTC

my mother isn't the type to sit down and talk to my sister, more like slam doors and swear at the top of her lungs. even when she is calm she doesn't talk to people about how she feels. and me and my dad are guys, so hard for us to figure out what to do.

diamondroses October 27 2004, 11:49:33 UTC

And you're right. I did stupid shit and I turned out ok. I know everyday that I'm one of the luckier ones.

danster817 October 29 2004, 23:04:21 UTC

damn randy, i actually wanted to throw up after reading that, cuz i had 0 idea that your sister has been doing all this. All this time, i thought she was the most innocent one, and i def. got the sense that your parents adored her. but seriously, i think you're onto something when you say you have to enforce the rules. Cuz theres certain things that a sister will listen to her brother about rather than listen to her parents. i'm not sayin you gotta be macho and lay down the law, cuz the last thing that needs to happed like your friend lauren pointed out is to have your sis push you away, so you gotta talk to her without looking like another version of your parents...and since i've never had a younger sis or brother, i have no idea how to do that =p. tell your folks i said whatup =)