Aspects of BSDM, Poly, LGBT Lifestyles Going Mainstream?

[trollup]

The April 20 edition of the 20/20 show on ABC was very exciting for me. It's not often that we get a sensible treatment of what are usually topics we hear only about on the likes of Fox "News" or other "conservative" outlets, groaning and bemoaning the fall of "family values" and the American way of life -- however it is they choose to define this

Comments

[sharon_masters]

Yes, this was a very important little snippet of reality for the US. i had some issue with the way they tried to make this almost TOO much about what kids know or don't know- my own son is a wonderful example of being in the dark while totally in the light. He has never been told anything sexual- but he knows all my friends, has sat around dinner tables with our extended leather family, spent Thanksgiving and Christmas day dinners with large groups that, although first brought together through kink find larger common experience and communal joy in the sharing of holidays and life, fun, and friendship. He never needs to know that the people- like you, who are the emergency response names on his school papers, or like Ellen, can come to emergency and sign papers, are also those that i share more than just my whole damned vanilla life

[trollup]

I do agree that children should not be oversexualized -- or any aspect of our lives and relationships for that matter. I think that one of the parents in the segment actually made the point that their children's desire to know only went so far, and that they really weren't interested in knowing what happened on 'sleepovers' any more than children might normally want to know about their parents' sex lives

thx for report and discussion

[delightspirit]

Good to hear of fair treatment of both bdsm and poly.

I have my own issues with some of the premises and attitudes in the book itself, but perhaps something good has come of it.