There is always a time when someone gets bitched about by other Lolitas. I mean... years ago when I sucked ass at Lolita I got Lolitafucked for an outfit that wasn't Lolita AT ALL.
But if you retaliate and try to confront them, it just makes the situation worse.
If you ignore it, it will be better. Always ignore someone who is teasing you or talking bad about you. It makes them furious.
It's a bunch of kids who have no friends and spend all their time online. How can they make fun of anyone else when they're such losers themselves?
"Hey guys look at this post I found on livejournal! Lets spend all our time making fun of it because we're so cool and superior that we don't have anything else to do."
Riiiight.
I think in that community specifically a lot of people have based their entire identity into being "EGL" and it makes them hypercritical of anyone else who tries to be that because their identity is threatened. In any subculture you always have people who are really defensive like that.
I got posted on there a few months ago for a picture that I was in. That community is so dumb, so I never joined it. It's just a bunch of girls looking for an excuse to be bitches.
Don't let them make you angry. You're way better than they are. <3
People put other people down to make themselves feel better at that other person's expense. I've been called a loser by someone who hardly knew me; yes, it hurt because how could someone who hardly knew me say such shit. Then I remembered said person had a TON of issues and was likely trying to impress someone else. The accusations of my being a loser was made by e-mail, and I did not respond for two reasons: it wasn't worth it and my response whether it was the silence said person got from me or a rant of how they were wrong because they didn't know me would be used against me.
You have every right to be annoyed and angry at how the people on that community are acting. It sounds like they are behaving like bullies and you don't need to deal with that.
Thanks. I honestly don't give a shit about what they say about me. But god damnit it really bothers me that they think i am some sort of Ita just for defending some friends. They must have no friends i don't see how they could keep any.
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But if you retaliate and try to confront them, it just makes the situation worse.
If you ignore it, it will be better. Always ignore someone who is teasing you or talking bad about you. It makes them furious.
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-huggles-
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It's a bunch of kids who have no friends and spend all their time online. How can they make fun of anyone else when they're such losers themselves?
"Hey guys look at this post I found on livejournal! Lets spend all our time making fun of it because we're so cool and superior that we don't have anything else to do."
Riiiight.
I think in that community specifically a lot of people have based their entire identity into being "EGL" and it makes them hypercritical of anyone else who tries to be that because their identity is threatened. In any subculture you always have people who are really defensive like that.
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Don't let them make you angry. You're way better than they are. <3
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You have every right to be annoyed and angry at how the people on that community are acting. It sounds like they are behaving like bullies and you don't need to deal with that.
Hugs, hugs, and more hugs.
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They must have no friends i don't see how they could keep any.
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