Good for you. From what you've told me, he's had that coming for a long, long time.
And you're right: it is a strange, empowering but somehow guilty ability. It's like going for someone's jugular in a thumbwrestling game, because you use it so rarely. Then you realize that when it comes down to the importance of fierce, verbal overhand left hooks, it is better to have the ability and not need it, than need it and not have it. Besides, he's a spoiled junkpond guido cocksuckerface anyway. All in all, I think he got off light.
However, you'd best hem that dress. This is the Black-Knight-from-Python's-The-Holy-Grail of relationships. Not to take the wind out of your sails, but if they hadn't split by now, lambasting that granite noggin' ain't gonna do it. Chin up. She can always tell him to fuck off the day after. Really. What can he do? File for divorce?
Thanks. It felt really good I have to say. I'm keep hoping the whole "rape of trust" will come into play regarding the reading of proprietary information and such. But you're right... I got to go hem that dress. Kat's doing it for me, I can only hope that she puts a little bit of vengence in every stitch. :) I can look at it this way: shortening the dress could be like carrying an umbrella...
I will say this, in the inevitable moment of cold feet right before the aisle walk, I am the WRONG person to have by your side. (Or the RIGHT person, depending on how you look at it).
Unfortunately I am agreeing with spprs... you better let me hem that dress. The wedding will happen and the divorce will probably happen as well, hopefully sooner rather than later. Good for you for letting him know how you feel. From what I've heard he's an arrogant, vain-glorious, sonofabitch. And yes, I can put plenty of venom in that hem... along with a little momma lion protection. It sounds like you're going to need it next weekend. GRRRRRRRRR!
You've had that one building up for a looooong time, I think. You didn't happen to say anything like, "You don't deserve her, you limp-dicked nancy, and the only way you can keep her is by using fear as a weapon, shitheel!" did you? That would've been good. Well, you have done what's right for you, which is speaking your mind, and called him on a particularly odious infraction (reading email is low, really). Unfortunately for your cause, couples have a way of getting over this sort of thing, unless it's a last straw
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And you're right: it is a strange, empowering but somehow guilty ability. It's like going for someone's jugular in a thumbwrestling game, because you use it so rarely. Then you realize that when it comes down to the importance of fierce, verbal overhand left hooks, it is better to have the ability and not need it, than need it and not have it. Besides, he's a spoiled junkpond guido cocksuckerface anyway. All in all, I think he got off light.
However, you'd best hem that dress. This is the Black-Knight-from-Python's-The-Holy-Grail of relationships. Not to take the wind out of your sails, but if they hadn't split by now, lambasting that granite noggin' ain't gonna do it. Chin up. She can always tell him to fuck off the day after. Really. What can he do? File for divorce?
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I will say this, in the inevitable moment of cold feet right before the aisle walk, I am the WRONG person to have by your side. (Or the RIGHT person, depending on how you look at it).
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Reading her email? What a fucker!
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eep.
Good on ya. He definitely had it coming.
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