I don't understand why women are so into the love crap... sex = good, but love = bad

[trzero]

Love = Evil, because Love destroys logic/reasoning, and friendships. Either that, or the woman I knew is a fabulous actress that's been putting on a rather convincing lie for months. When this is what Love does to women, it suddenly becomes clear why women have had a hard time making any status for themselves in history. Love fucks them over by

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[pretentiousgit]

*drily* Technically, there's a physiological (sp?) reason for it, to do with the chemistry of childrearing/bearing. And it's true that girls get the short end of the chemical stick, because, well, we have to deal with it when we get knocked up.

That being said, you're still a little out of line here. Boys are ruled by violence to the point of irrationality just as often as women lose it to love: the rational is by no means a native state for either sex. It is, rather, something to aspire to.

[trzero]

Half-point. I think hormonal levels enter into it. Estrogen probably triggers harder and more devastating love inducement while testorone triggers the violence and such. Both lead to total unreasonability and totally fucking awful choices. Both can be suppressed to an extent, and at the very least controlled as long as you are sufficiently open-minded and aware.

[wireandclouds]

AHHHHRRRRGHHHHAAAHHH!!!
I'LL KILL YOU FOR THAT!!!
*killkillkill*

[pretentiousgit]

*laughs* Yeah, see? I get both these. Reason = sub-function of intelligent use of emotion?

**nods slowly**

[midnights_flame]

I agree with ya trz hun... love = bad , sex = good... well if your lucky enough to bewith someone who knows what there doing. :p
But wait...i'm not suppose to say that... For some reason there is a little nitch... for a woman who wants sex but no relationship, and seeks sex with no ties... that would count me as a whore in mos5t of modren day socity. So maybe i shouldn't agree with you but i do. Love is over rated and over used. The word in itself has been turned in to a use to take advantage of people, Its used to often and rarely is meant. Thats why.... **waits for a dramtic moment*** when people saw they love me is snort and walk away :p well most of the time anyway.

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[trzero]

That's something that pisses me off a lot actually: Society telling people how to think. It's right up there with double standards. Some countries are better about it than others, but it is to some extent present in most 1st-world cultures (European ones are a good place to start to find less-stringent standards, although EVERYWHERE in the 1st world is less stringent than the U.S.).
I think Love is more of an imbalance or an excuse. I fully believe that you can love your family, because they are the components that made you, but that can also be the very same reason you hate your family, depends on an infinite number of things. However, I don't think you can only love one person. There will be people you like more than others, but if there were no sexes or "social restrictions", I'd probably easily love a lot of my friends. Love is no different than liking someone strongly, no more, no less.

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[midnights_flame]

I agree with that point also, and it is proven true many times over. I would go more in depth but i am slow seeing as i just got hom from work. I am now one of the "evil Telemarketers" of the world :p