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Aug 04, 2004 11:34

"How do things get to the point where he might cheat on you? After all, you're an attractive, funny, sexy and smart woman. You should be enough for him, right? In an ideal world, yes - but when was the last time your world was ideal?" - stupid article ( Read more... )

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lafingod August 4 2004, 12:31:40 UTC
Ug, ug. Ugg ugg URGH! Phht.

I agree with what you said. The only thing to say about it is most of all humans no better than a tribe of chimps. Most of the time, they won't kill each other, and the alpha male (biggest asshole) gets all the chicks until his back is turned. Seriously though, there is a catch 22 here. If women totally blame men, there is a lack of balance in the relationship, and that will eventually piss off any guy. If they totally blame themselves, women will continue to be unsure and insecure. That is probably the biggest annoyance ever. I don't really understand why blame is even involved; I guess it is so we can all sleep better at night.

Women would be much happier without magazines. Men would be much happier if women figured out that they aren't immediately gifted with superior fornication skills, i.e. reality check.

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I'm sorry but... punkybritesan August 4 2004, 14:03:26 UTC
No one is to blame but the cheater themselves, whether they be male or female. There is NO excuse for cheating what so ever BECAUSE of a little "c" word: "conversation." If a couple talked on a regular basis about the feelings and emotions, (yes it could get a bit dramatic at times), then there would BE no cheating because either A)They would see they were unhappy and need to seperate--result: no cheating or B) they could work things out and try to be happy--result: no cheating.

(think I just summed up your entry w/o sarcasm. heh.)

I am female. I have cheated...because I was too afraid of what might happen had I spoken my mind and told of my emotions. EXCUSES! Everyone gives excuses, everyone places the blame. It's human nature to do so. That doesn't mean that a little "conversation" and "bravery" don't do a relationship good.

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Re: I'm sorry but... tsibut August 4 2004, 15:31:07 UTC
Is there something Im missing - or did you just agree with me?

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Re: I'm sorry but... punkybritesan August 6 2004, 09:07:03 UTC
yeah...i think i did and didn't. *shrugs* it's been a while.

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janele27 August 5 2004, 10:11:42 UTC
i dont think i ever cheated on someone that i felt i was in a good relationship with. but then again i have only cheated on the last boyfriend...so maybe i was lucky?

relationships are overrated most of the time anyways.

good not to settle.

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