single is shitty but it is also a good thing because we aren't taking the first person that comes along. they have to earn us. what do you have to offer me? are you good enough for me? are you worth my time? put yourself first. stand up for yourself. don't let shitty people who won't make you happy or love you or take care or you or think of you all the time get in your way. it sucks being single. but now look what you can do. you can step back and see who's out there, or do what i'm doing and wait forever until HOPEFULLY someone comes along. i love you. stay strong. stay SMART! ps. don't pick up girls (or boys hehe) at bars/clubs or don't be picked up... this is my SUGGESTION. you don't know them or their intention or their background and it really sucks and messes with your mind when you finally realize what went on and it wasn't at all what you thought. people are messed up. watch out. be smart. *michelle*
I'm just about having fun right now. I'm not in the mood for settling down with someone right now. I want to meet people and have a good time. I don't care what they want to offer me besides a good friendship and someone to make me laugh. I don't care what their intentions are or where I'm "picked up" at. If I go home with someone for a night, I go home with someone for a night. If I decide to make something more out of a friendship, then I will. The past year has taught me a lot - and that is not to give my heart away to someone who doesn't deserve it - to forget the never ending search for the right one - to have fun. After all, isn't that what college is about? Having fun and learning things about yourself? Well, I've learned lots of things about myself...now I'm ready for the fun.
I really do appreciate the suggestions. But this is what I want right now. And being single doesn't have to be shitty...you have to make it fun - who wants someone who doesn't have fun? Don't take this as a being defensive...I'm just being me.
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May 13 2005, 13:12:43 UTC
well i guess after being used twice, once by you, and the second time by a girl that picked me up at common ground who made it seem like she liked me and wanted to be friends, etc. it just was complicated and messed with my head and heart. that is what having fun can do to people. so i guess you are probably on the other side of the coin and are acting like her "i was just having fun." another fucking suggestion: don't get someones phone number unless you intend on calling them. tell them your intentions or non-intentions so you don't mess with their heads/hearts. or maybe i'm just a sucker like that. *m*
being single fucking rocks. just thought i would share. and no emma, that wasn't too harsh at all. let me know some time and i can show you what too harsh might be.
Eeemaaaahhh. I love you. Lesbian drama is way more interesting and entertaining than straight-people drama. I hope you're doing well tho. If you want, we can cuddle when you come up here. Actually, you, Caitie, Jess and I can all cuddle. It will be glorious. ^_^
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ps. don't pick up girls (or boys hehe) at bars/clubs or don't be picked up... this is my SUGGESTION. you don't know them or their intention or their background and it really sucks and messes with your mind when you finally realize what went on and it wasn't at all what you thought. people are messed up. watch out. be smart.
*michelle*
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I really do appreciate the suggestions. But this is what I want right now. And being single doesn't have to be shitty...you have to make it fun - who wants someone who doesn't have fun? Don't take this as a being defensive...I'm just being me.
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another fucking suggestion: don't get someones phone number unless you intend on calling them. tell them your intentions or non-intentions so you don't mess with their heads/hearts.
or maybe i'm just a sucker like that.
*m*
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and no emma, that wasn't too harsh at all. let me know some time and i can show you what too harsh might be.
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dude, we totally need to talk. i'll probably see you tonight.
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-jess
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