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[tsukiokuhime]

Comments

[uchuu_kita]

'Girl who changed for their boyfriend is also stupid. I'm sorry if any of you feel offended, but once again, this is merely my opinion.'

I think it definitely depends upon the nature of the change. For instance stopping smoking or drinking too much for yourself (and someone else) is a great idea.

However, those who try to change in a negative way, or who feel pressured to be thinner/prettier/have a different personality need to take a close look at their relationship, and whether that person is really good for them.

[tsukiokuhime]

Yeah,I agree to that,if it really does bring us greater good,it worthed it.

Oh god,he even said he likes my tummy and chubby cheeks, how could mom accused him of pressuring me? ;___;

[tsukiokuhime]

Glad someone understand that feeling, sobs, Dina, we must be destined!
I know that people say you don't have to look good to love yourself but let's just be honest, people, let's just be honest.

Thank you, dear /hugs back

[absolutehymn007]

*hugs* I'm sorry to hear that your mom made you feel this way.

But at least you know that you made this change for yourself and not for others, and that's wonderful! It's hard to not let comparisons and pressure affect your decisions so the fact that you can confidently say that it was for your best interest is awesome.

[tsukiokuhime]

Thank you, dear /hugs back

Because I'm that egoist and self-centered, hahahaha

[illusioncandy]

I never understood why people felt the need to change themselves for anybody. Unless it benefits their health (not smoking, not drinking, etc), I really don't see the need :/
Those who change for themselves though, then that I really admire. Therefore you do deserved to be admired for making the change for yourself. :)

*hugs* Sorry to hear that your mom is making you feel like this.

[tsukiokuhime]

I'm not that great to be admired, lol, now I'm blushing >///<)/

Thank you, dear :")