Fault implies that this has come about due to someone's intentional actions. Fault is simply the wrong word here.
It's your lot, for whatever reason you care to apply, that you are mommy to this unruly girl. Life is a chaos and we all invent our explanations for why and how things came to be. Some things can be repeated and then we can measure the world around us. But that only matters if you're planning on having another kid and don't want to deal with ADHD and ODD again. Then maybe it might be worth asking the psychiatrist how these disorders come about and how they might be prevented.
But as for the girl herself, you can't blame yourself for being yourself any more than you can blame her for being herself. It's your responsiblity, now, to raise her. That doesn't mean it's your fault. so there.
Sadly, I've always wanted more kids than just one. I just never wanted to be a single parent. Now I'm just mopey coz there's a lot of things I wanted out of life that I'll probably never get. I'm feeling burdoned by mortality these days. It's just not possible for me to achieve much of anything I ever set out to.
Theoretically, I could just change my goals and desires. Nothing else appeals, though...
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It's your lot, for whatever reason you care to apply, that you are mommy to this unruly girl. Life is a chaos and we all invent our explanations for why and how things came to be. Some things can be repeated and then we can measure the world around us. But that only matters if you're planning on having another kid and don't want to deal with ADHD and ODD again. Then maybe it might be worth asking the psychiatrist how these disorders come about and how they might be prevented.
But as for the girl herself, you can't blame yourself for being yourself any more than you can blame her for being herself. It's your responsiblity, now, to raise her. That doesn't mean it's your fault. so there.
*Hugs*
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Sadly, I've always wanted more kids than just one. I just never wanted to be a single parent. Now I'm just mopey coz there's a lot of things I wanted out of life that I'll probably never get. I'm feeling burdoned by mortality these days. It's just not possible for me to achieve much of anything I ever set out to.
Theoretically, I could just change my goals and desires. Nothing else appeals, though...
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