Hi... I am a comment irrelevant to this post....demereJanuary 23 2005, 13:33:25 UTC
... But relevant to a no longer existant post that I wrote and you commented on.
Over the past week I have been rather crazed (for understandable reasons) and as a result have done some things that were uncalled for. Nick and I are fixing things together (we had a HUGE communication problem and both acted in ways that were inappropriate). So we are wiping the slate clean and starting afresh.
Due in great part to my lack of sleep and the fact that I was hurt, my defense mechanisms came out in full force and I began to work toward two conflicting goals at the same time: repairing a relationship and demonizing the person who I saw as the cause of my pain.
This behavior was uncalled for and I do not wish to cause Nick that kind of pain nor to cost him any of the friends that we mutually know. While his behavior seemed inappropriate, there were other factors involved which makes the situation not as cut and dry as it might seem.
You may delete this after you read it as it is irrelevant to your post.
Re: Hi... I am a comment irrelevant to this post....turtletimeJanuary 28 2005, 16:45:28 UTC
Well, I'm here for you, no matter what happens. I figured it wasn't as cut and dry as it seemed, but you were very upset my dear, so I wanted you to know that I'm here for you, whenever you need me. :)
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Over the past week I have been rather crazed (for understandable reasons) and as a result have done some things that were uncalled for. Nick and I are fixing things together (we had a HUGE communication problem and both acted in ways that were inappropriate). So we are wiping the slate clean and starting afresh.
Due in great part to my lack of sleep and the fact that I was hurt, my defense mechanisms came out in full force and I began to work toward two conflicting goals at the same time: repairing a relationship and demonizing the person who I saw as the cause of my pain.
This behavior was uncalled for and I do not wish to cause Nick that kind of pain nor to cost him any of the friends that we mutually know. While his behavior seemed inappropriate, there were other factors involved which makes the situation not as cut and dry as it might seem.
You may delete this after you read it as it is irrelevant to your post.
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