i say just don't worry about it. you'll just end up feeling weird during your relationship and not getting to fully enjoy it. i'd kinda compare it to me and flying. i looooove flying but i'm kinda a little afraid of it too. i'm just always worried about the things that could go wrong. i've been trying to tell myself to enjoy the flights because there's no sense in being panicky for 3-4 hours for no reason. especially when the odds of something bad happening is very unlikely. if something happens then you worry about it but until then just enjoy what's going on presently. will an engine fall off? possibly but does that mean i should never fly because there's that chance it could happen? no. does this help? hope so.
You are an amazing, smart, clever, incredibly attractive girl who is a hell of a catch in your own right, and if for some reason he would decide to get back with someone who left him for another guy AND owes him shit-tons of money, he would be a moron.
Now tell yourself that whenever you're feeling insecure, and remember that someone who was not you said it first, and hopefully that'll help. :)
Seriously, unless he's given you a concrete reason to not trust what he's saying, trust him. And if he betrays that trust, it's because he's a douche, not because you're not completely awesome.
Hey margo! Being the negative person that I am, I'm going to have to tell you that I would feel the exact same way. I'm ALWAYS waiting for the other shoe to drop. Now I'm not saying that this is the proper way to think, I'm just saying I know where you are coming from 100 percent. That being said unless he's giving you a weird vibe or something, just believe him. Glad to hear things are goin well.
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i say just don't worry about it. you'll just end up feeling weird during your relationship and not getting to fully enjoy it. i'd kinda compare it to me and flying. i looooove flying but i'm kinda a little afraid of it too. i'm just always worried about the things that could go wrong. i've been trying to tell myself to enjoy the flights because there's no sense in being panicky for 3-4 hours for no reason. especially when the odds of something bad happening is very unlikely. if something happens then you worry about it but until then just enjoy what's going on presently. will an engine fall off? possibly but does that mean i should never fly because there's that chance it could happen? no. does this help? hope so.
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You are an amazing, smart, clever, incredibly attractive girl who is a hell of a catch in your own right, and if for some reason he would decide to get back with someone who left him for another guy AND owes him shit-tons of money, he would be a moron.
Now tell yourself that whenever you're feeling insecure, and remember that someone who was not you said it first, and hopefully that'll help. :)
Seriously, unless he's given you a concrete reason to not trust what he's saying, trust him. And if he betrays that trust, it's because he's a douche, not because you're not completely awesome.
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Don't worry about it...whatever will be, will be.
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Being the negative person that I am, I'm going to have to tell you that I would feel the exact same way. I'm ALWAYS waiting for the other shoe to drop. Now I'm not saying that this is the proper way to think, I'm just saying I know where you are coming from 100 percent.
That being said unless he's giving you a weird vibe or something, just believe him. Glad to hear things are goin well.
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