Just a spouse....

Nov 19, 2010 04:46

Please excuse me if I use this space for a little therapy since I can't afford (and don't have time) for an actual therapist or support group other than my blog. *sigh ( Read more... )

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zarniwhooper November 19 2010, 11:28:22 UTC
Even the strongest of us have moments when the burdens of life seem too great. It's then that the Lord whispers to our hearts: Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. MATTHEW 11:28 NIV

Right here, right now, in the middle of all you're facing, the Lord is there to give you strength and grace.

Many prayers are with you too.

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twichie November 19 2010, 12:14:47 UTC
*hugs* Love you Zarni. Thank you. I know God's got us in His hands. Yesterday seemed like a bit much. (Not even counting the six year old son being accused of sexual harassment at school and the fact that my mom's coming to town on Monday to stay with us for a week..!)

It's all notes for a sitcom. That's what I figure.

Thank God He is in control. *hugs*

Hey Zarni - you on Facebook?

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zarniwhooper November 19 2010, 13:02:57 UTC
Yup- sent you a message with the info. :-)

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uliamos November 19 2010, 11:47:41 UTC
When I read all this I went through all sorts of emotions. First I was surprised about this quack, calling himself a doctor. As I read on I got furious and angry. And towards the end all I felt was I wanted to cry. What was being said to you is so outrageous! That charlatan should have to hand in his medical licence or whatever it is he's got that allows him to treat patients.

As you probably know I don't believe in Him, but rest assured, my thoughts are with you. Have been for a long time now. And I'll always keep sending good vibes your way.

<333 *bighugs*

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twichie November 19 2010, 12:17:54 UTC
Uli - I love you too. *hugs* Thank you.

I went through all of those emotions too....*sigh*

Seriously? All notes for the sitcom I'm working on....

I can find ways to make people laugh at it. :) Therapy!

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uliamos November 19 2010, 12:43:25 UTC
Honestly, I don't think I can even begin to imagine what it must be like for you. I mean... 2008... that was like ages ago. Must be one hell of a rollercoaster ride emotion wise. But I think the most amazing and admirable part about it is to see that marriages still can work. The way you stick to your hubby, the way you stand up for him, the way you have his back, the way you're always there for him... I just hope he'd do the same for you.

And despite all this, you still manage to smile. You are an extraordinary woman! And I love you to bits for that! <333

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twichie November 19 2010, 12:56:59 UTC
LOL - I joke with him all the time that he's totally stuck with me. ;) He would (and has) done the same for me.

At one of his appointments (where the doctor was completely ignoring that I was even in the room and asking question - I may as well have been wearing a burqa - seriously) My husband said "Let me get something straight right now. This is my wife. Her questions matter. You will look at her when she speaks, answer her questions when she asks and you will respect her as a valid and valued part of my medical care. It's because of her that they found out what's really wrong with me so you will not dismiss her anymore."

:) He's the bestest hubby ever. *grins*

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sabaceanbabe November 19 2010, 14:01:09 UTC
I think you need to print this post out and officially file it as a complaint with every agency, military and civilian, involved in licensing this guy to practice. He's a lawsuit (and worse!) in waiting.

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twichie November 19 2010, 16:24:00 UTC
That's a good idea SB.... Hm....I do have one avenue I might be able to use.

It's dangerous to get me thinking you know. ;)

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dominar_action November 20 2010, 02:12:51 UTC
I ditto sb -- I was going to suggest (demand?) that you mail this to the doctor, his supervising officer, the hospital administration, your congressman/woman .... you name it, this $@#$ should not be happening to anyone, much less our servicemen and women. "Just his wife"! Pfbth!

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mustafear November 23 2010, 05:47:22 UTC
Dear Twichie,

Keep kicking against the darkness until it bleeds daylight.

Sincerely,
Zonoma

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mustafear November 23 2010, 05:48:30 UTC
Also, neurontin is evil.

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