Raphael is currently ignoring me and wishes to have nothing to do with me. I refuse to make the effort to change this, as I have spoken to him more one once and he has looked away and blanked me.
Raphael has also made it quite clear in his latest journal entry that he does not see a friendship between us working, whether or not I agree with this or not is irrelevant but I am not going to make or force him to do anything.
I have tried being calm and rational but when one person does not wish to talk about their feelings and the other person is not pyschic - and has admitted this - then there is little more to be done.
STOP BEING STUBBORN AND TALK ABOUT IT. I don't care if your TONGUE falls out and shrivels up. Both of you need to apologize. It's fine if you don't want to be friends, but do NOT just end on these terms.
I don't apologise when I am not sorry. I don't talk about things because I can't say what I really want and because things get interpreted wrong anyway. I'd rather someone thought I was cold and arrogant than that I was stupid.
What does it matter on which terms it ended on anyway? I don't want to go back on my decision somehow as a result of trying to make a better ending.
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Raphael has also made it quite clear in his latest journal entry that he does not see a friendship between us working, whether or not I agree with this or not is irrelevant but I am not going to make or force him to do anything.
I have tried being calm and rational but when one person does not wish to talk about their feelings and the other person is not pyschic - and has admitted this - then there is little more to be done.
Sorry for distressing you.
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Rationality is not one of my strong points.
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Now, forgive me if this irritates you.
STOP BEING STUBBORN AND TALK ABOUT IT. I don't care if your TONGUE falls out and shrivels up. Both of you need to apologize. It's fine if you don't want to be friends, but do NOT just end on these terms.
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What does it matter on which terms it ended on anyway? I don't want to go back on my decision somehow as a result of trying to make a better ending.
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