Whoa, Joe, we don't know each other and it's none of my business, but it's only been a month, right?
I urge you to at least have a lengthy engagement period. Forgive me for my intrusion, but I don't think anyone can gauge a relationship's long term potential that quickly.
I know you feel sure, but I know plenty of other people who felt sure and then . . . didn't. It's definitely happened to me.
I hope you know that I'm not trying to take away from your happiness whatsoever- just from reading your journal from afar I know you've been through some tough stuff in the last couple years and don't want you to dive into something too blindly. And love is blinding,
I'm so happy for you Joe but, please, heed the wise words of franny_glass. I agree with what she says. Take this relationship one step at a time and don't rush anything.
i had a ring on my finger pretty quick too, and we did have over a year of being engaged. it seriously did help. so many unexpected things pop up (probably more for the girl than the guy) :) good luck, joe. i went through this pretty recently so let me know if you need help.
^^ What she said. It's only out of concern for you, but love is amazing. Since I got the concern out of the way, let me say I'm so incredibly happy for you darling.
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WOOO HOOO!
If there's one man who deserves honest to goodness real luvin, it's you, sir. I am so happy for you, I could plotz.
(P.S. I'm digging on the haircut!)
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I urge you to at least have a lengthy engagement period. Forgive me for my intrusion, but I don't think anyone can gauge a relationship's long term potential that quickly.
I know you feel sure, but I know plenty of other people who felt sure and then . . . didn't. It's definitely happened to me.
I hope you know that I'm not trying to take away from your happiness whatsoever- just from reading your journal from afar I know you've been through some tough stuff in the last couple years and don't want you to dive into something too blindly. And love is blinding,
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But congrats!
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