I'm not sure where you're getting the sense that the group's given up on you, as I've not really picked up on any of that in my (admittedly) limited interactions with people in general. I've always seen it as kind of the opposite -- the group extends an invitation, but you're forced to reject because you have plans with someone else. Which, I hasten to add, is neither our fault nor yours
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im just sayin that i havent even talked to anyone really since the 4th...
and re: the rocky horror thing, yea, i wanted to go, but Ken was on his way over and i wasnt going to call him and say, hey im leaving, you have to go home now, plus he was kinda buzzed and i didnt want him driving too far. i would have went with but u guys left way earlier than i thought u were going to, then pretty much everyone left w/o saying goodbye(litteraly) and letting me explain myself...but whatever.
its late (or early), im tired, thats all i have for now...
Nah, I totally get what you're saying. But I think the problem isn't with any one individual in particular -- it's the group as a whole that's drifting apart, you know?
oh man...totally understand what you're talking about...there are so many indian events and junk and school and etc...I miss everyone as well. However, Abe's comment makes a lot of sense...everyone wants to hang out with everyone, but its not fun to hear "sorry, I can't" again and again. Same goes for me--thats why I was super excited to see people on the 4th. Eh whatev, things will keep going for the better :-)
Ya, I feel like every time I try to plan something everyone's busy. Prime example=last friday when only Brad wanted to do something. I know it's no one's fault in particular but it still really hurt, ya know? And, whenever I do plan something, I call everyone except maybe Stephanie. So, I understand how you feel, Sarah, but I don't think anyone's trying to exclude you; everyone is just busy.
On another note... If you or anyone ever want to do something, please don't hesitate to call me or others. I feel like I've run out of ideas and I know that I'm busy with school, but I still want to do stuff!
Basically, I understand what you're talking about, and it does hurt.
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and re: the rocky horror thing, yea, i wanted to go, but Ken was on his way over and i wasnt going to call him and say, hey im leaving, you have to go home now, plus he was kinda buzzed and i didnt want him driving too far. i would have went with but u guys left way earlier than i thought u were going to, then pretty much everyone left w/o saying goodbye(litteraly) and letting me explain myself...but whatever.
its late (or early), im tired, thats all i have for now...
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On another note... If you or anyone ever want to do something, please don't hesitate to call me or others. I feel like I've run out of ideas and I know that I'm busy with school, but I still want to do stuff!
Basically, I understand what you're talking about, and it does hurt.
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