um, so i was really pretty sure that i was getting over peter. i wasn't thinking about him, i wasn't nearly as jealous when i saw him with other girls, no obsessing at all
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Hey buddy, long time no talk. But I JUST went through this, so I know exactly how you're feeling.
I was crazy about this kid and didn't know whether or not to say something, we were AMAZING friends and I was afraid of messing that up. I talked to Chubbs (one of my teammates) and she said that yeah, i might get shot down, but did I really want to walk around the rest of my life knowing I might have passed up a really great opportunity?
So I decided to get some guts and tell them... and as fate would have it I fell flat on my face. They were completely and udderly into one of my friends. I felt like a idiot, but they told me it wasn't going to be awkward unless I made it that way. This was months ago, and we're still awesome friends. So if this guy is as good as you're making him sound, you're going to be friends regardless. Take the plunge buddy, you'll regret it later if you don't. Thats my opinion at least. Best of luck chica.
I recently encountered an experience where I liked a boy when he didn't like me back. It's never fun babes. But what made the whole thing messy was when someone else spoke on my behalf. I do not advise it in the least, even if they are well intentioned. believe me, you're going to want to be there when he admits he likes you back. and if he doesn't like you back, it'll be better in the long run if you hear it from him. or else you'll always wonder. I'm going to give you the more cautious, conservative advice because that's just how i roll. I don't want you to bottle things up. But see what its like not spending time with him..and spending it with other equally eligible boys. Do you still think about him? Whatever you do, be true to yourself, and don't let anyone put words in your mouth. sometimes when you talk to too many people about the situation, it makes you more confused.
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I was crazy about this kid and didn't know whether or not to say something, we were AMAZING friends and I was afraid of messing that up. I talked to Chubbs (one of my teammates) and she said that yeah, i might get shot down, but did I really want to walk around the rest of my life knowing I might have passed up a really great opportunity?
So I decided to get some guts and tell them... and as fate would have it I fell flat on my face. They were completely and udderly into one of my friends. I felt like a idiot, but they told me it wasn't going to be awkward unless I made it that way. This was months ago, and we're still awesome friends. So if this guy is as good as you're making him sound, you're going to be friends regardless. Take the plunge buddy, you'll regret it later if you don't. Thats my opinion at least. Best of luck chica.
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i love you, and good luck!
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