you know, i've been thinking a lot about friendships lately and was wondering really, how many strikes are friends allowed before you should definitely kick them outta your life
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The number of strikes that a friend is allowed to have is only the number you give them. Forgivness is key, but it does have it's limits. I believe it is up to the friend, whoever it is, to realize that what they are doing, saying otherwise, is hurting the friendship (with a bit of assistance from the other friend). Moving on is not a strong point that I possess, but I find a way to do it, otherwise I,you,whomever will go insane thinking about the 'what if.' Bottom line is you have the decision to make, but you along with the other friend have to settle things united, not divided.
yeah, forgiveness definitely has its limits. i just wonder how many times you should forgive before you realize that you've been making a mistake all along? ya know what i mean? moving on and actually forgiving is definitely a difficult task, and i think it shows a lot about a person if they can do that! =) thanks for the comment jason! :)
Crystal, I'd just like to inform you that you have a clean slate in terms of our friendship. At this current moment, you have no Strikes against you. Way to go!
Ok, so I haven't called you yet & I feel horrible! With the strikes thing, I have a friend like that too. They can be the coolest person to chill with but there are episodes where I feel so degraded and worthless because of them. I've learned to just take time apart from them. If I mean a lot to them/if they mean a lot to me, time helps me to figure that out. On a side note, I promise to call you soon!
aww that's okay babe =) it's hard to say about the strikes thing. it's bad when a person you want to call your friend makes you feel like that, eh? =\ i don't know, i'm a bit more bitter than the average person i guess and i don't know if i'd want to have them around. =P i love youuuuuuuuuu though!!! and call me soon! xoxo
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Moving on is not a strong point that I possess, but I find a way to do it, otherwise I,you,whomever will go insane thinking about the 'what if.' Bottom line is you have the decision to make, but you along with the other friend have to settle things united, not divided.
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