So how exactly does freshers flu degrade into an all night cough-till-you-hurl fest? Beats me. And then there's my other problem/issue/sourceofworry/secret/idon'tevenknowanymore. Dan
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Gaahh! I'm feel really happy/worried for you (does that make sense? xD)
I guess I'd probably react the same way - for some reason I get awfully annoyed/defensive if someone implies something/tries to meddle in my (non-existent) love-life, and if I think a boy likes me I get downright nervous xD
My flatmate is going through the EXACT SAME situation - there's a guy in her class who likes her and she sort of likes him but doesn't really know yet...and all their classmates are trying to get them together...in the end they've decided to wait a while too.
I think what you're doing sounds really good though, because you haven't known each other for very long, so it's best to get to know the other person before deciding to pursue a relationship ^_^ I'm sure time will tell, and you'll know what to do :) (bear in mind, this is coming from the girl who has had about as much experience with boys as a cat has with a kitchen knife...)
Awww thank you! <3 (and well, it makes sense to me lol)
Its just all so confusing - I don't really know what to do. I feel bad now tho, because I think's he's hiding from me in his room. Except I can't tell if he's hiding, or being subtle like we agreed, so I don't know if he's upset or absolutely fine :S URGH LIFE
Its so embarassing that everyone else was watching/waiting for it to happen too... I sorta feel like I screwed up a bit :S
And awww thank you for the support <3 I felt so aweful turning him down, especially when he's quite a quiet, self-concious guy anyhows, so I hope I've done the right thing playing it like this! One of my friends pointed out that the fact I got defensive over him and didn't like the thought of him going out with someone else it probably meant there was something there but I don't know... I don't wanna kill the friendship we had over something so small... (Tbh, I'm so muddled every little bit of advice helps right now...I might just eat biscuits for a while and hide :D)
EEEEEEEEEE EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ;3; /flaily, THINGS ARE HAPPENING!!
...er, I seriously wish I could give you good and useful advice, but I'm really not an expert in these things /o\ but he sounds like an absolute sweetheart, so that's a good start!!
Playing it safe and giving it a little while does seem best. Even if there was a bit of awkwardness at least you got to talk about it, which should eliminate misunderstandings, right? XD;; I don't think it's something to worry hugely over though. :3 Maybe just focus on having fun for now!
/the most useless, aaahhh I'm happy for you, although emotionalflailing isn't the most fun thing to go through... XD;
Haha things have been happening for quite some time now dear, you're just a tad out the loop :D
And he is fantastic - I couldn't have met a sweeter guy <3 (plus he's a cadet in the RAF *does smug little happy dance*) We went out for a walk last night and talked stuff over, and I think we're good, though my friends were brick-to-the-face subtle by running off giggling to give us "alone time" *cringes inwardly* The awkwardness has sort-of gone now, though the jerk still manages to make me blush like a complete idiot when we make eye-contact! Methinks somehow I'll have to work on my pokerface, but I'm such a sap - even typing this makes me grin like a fool - I think he does it on purpose... But anyhows~ how was expo? As busy as usual? xox
The loop eludes me... aaah, start up another FB thread and I'll keep tabs on it >__<
RAF CADET-- it's like he was made for you! (joining in the corniness here)-but I'm glad that things are going well! You two already sound adorable and I haven't even met him yet :Db
Expo was actually alright! More people every year! The only kerfuffles were somebody in our group didn't make her outfit til Saturday night, despite the fact we had planned outfits together for about a month beforehand, and we already had something planned for that evening. So there was still sewing going on at 3am. And the expo staff got even more notoriously rude, which I didn't actually experience, but we managed to somehow wrangle ourselves an extra weekend wristband so, er... yay? It was fun but exhauuuuusting. x_____x
Ah don't worry - we've all been busy recently it seems - still, you can catch up on fb. Seems catherine's back again :)
I KNOW RIGHT?! It distresses me somewhat tho - he wants to join up after uni and I'm not quite sure how I feel about that :S I feel like such a hypocrit...Life is frustrating too. I slammed the breaks on "us", but now even the littlest things he does seem to get a reaction out of me. Being calm and patient (and subtle) is hard!
Only "alright"? I guess it just keeps getting busier as more people find out about it...Uff and thats a pain - expo coincided with halloween right? I bet you guys all had fun anyhow :) I've managed to find a comic shop in York, so I can get my VK fix! The fan book gets released in english soon and I'm sooo excited :D
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I guess I'd probably react the same way - for some reason I get awfully annoyed/defensive if someone implies something/tries to meddle in my (non-existent) love-life, and if I think a boy likes me I get downright nervous xD
My flatmate is going through the EXACT SAME situation - there's a guy in her class who likes her and she sort of likes him but doesn't really know yet...and all their classmates are trying to get them together...in the end they've decided to wait a while too.
I think what you're doing sounds really good though, because you haven't known each other for very long, so it's best to get to know the other person before deciding to pursue a relationship ^_^
I'm sure time will tell, and you'll know what to do :)
(bear in mind, this is coming from the girl who has had about as much experience with boys as a cat has with a kitchen knife...)
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Its just all so confusing - I don't really know what to do. I feel bad now tho, because I think's he's hiding from me in his room. Except I can't tell if he's hiding, or being subtle like we agreed, so I don't know if he's upset or absolutely fine :S URGH LIFE
Its so embarassing that everyone else was watching/waiting for it to happen too... I sorta feel like I screwed up a bit :S
And awww thank you for the support <3 I felt so aweful turning him down, especially when he's quite a quiet, self-concious guy anyhows, so I hope I've done the right thing playing it like this! One of my friends pointed out that the fact I got defensive over him and didn't like the thought of him going out with someone else it probably meant there was something there but I don't know... I don't wanna kill the friendship we had over something so small...
(Tbh, I'm so muddled every little bit of advice helps right now...I might just eat biscuits for a while and hide :D)
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...er, I seriously wish I could give you good and useful advice, but I'm really not an expert in these things /o\ but he sounds like an absolute sweetheart, so that's a good start!!
Playing it safe and giving it a little while does seem best. Even if there was a bit of awkwardness at least you got to talk about it, which should eliminate misunderstandings, right? XD;; I don't think it's something to worry hugely over though. :3 Maybe just focus on having fun for now!
/the most useless, aaahhh I'm happy for you, although emotionalflailing isn't the most fun thing to go through... XD;
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And he is fantastic - I couldn't have met a sweeter guy <3 (plus he's a cadet in the RAF *does smug little happy dance*) We went out for a walk last night and talked stuff over, and I think we're good, though my friends were brick-to-the-face subtle by running off giggling to give us "alone time" *cringes inwardly*
The awkwardness has sort-of gone now, though the jerk still manages to make me blush like a complete idiot when we make eye-contact! Methinks somehow I'll have to work on my pokerface, but I'm such a sap - even typing this makes me grin like a fool - I think he does it on purpose...
But anyhows~ how was expo? As busy as usual?
xox
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RAF CADET-- it's like he was made for you! (joining in the corniness here)-but I'm glad that things are going well! You two already sound adorable and I haven't even met him yet :Db
Expo was actually alright! More people every year! The only kerfuffles were somebody in our group didn't make her outfit til Saturday night, despite the fact we had planned outfits together for about a month beforehand, and we already had something planned for that evening. So there was still sewing going on at 3am. And the expo staff got even more notoriously rude, which I didn't actually experience, but we managed to somehow wrangle ourselves an extra weekend wristband so, er... yay? It was fun but exhauuuuusting. x_____x
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I KNOW RIGHT?! It distresses me somewhat tho - he wants to join up after uni and I'm not quite sure how I feel about that :S I feel like such a hypocrit...Life is frustrating too. I slammed the breaks on "us", but now even the littlest things he does seem to get a reaction out of me. Being calm and patient (and subtle) is hard!
Only "alright"? I guess it just keeps getting busier as more people find out about it...Uff and thats a pain - expo coincided with halloween right? I bet you guys all had fun anyhow :) I've managed to find a comic shop in York, so I can get my VK fix! The fan book gets released in english soon and I'm sooo excited :D
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