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udonobbsessed

Child Complex and Stuff

Dec 18, 2008 22:41

I've heard that people who act younger than their age usually do that to make up for a traumatic childhood. Sometimes I act like a little kid, but for me I think maybe it's for the opposite reason. Being depressed, I don't really remember the last time I was happy. I just remember that as a little kid I was a very happy-go-lucky little girl. So I ( Read more... )

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twilight_miko December 24 2008, 04:17:51 UTC

People should do what makes them happy. I don't have the right to define relationships for other people any more than I have the right to define their personality, their friends, etc etc. I mean, the way you approach a relationship is as unique as your personality, isn't it? Some people love being in relationships, others only like the chase, some need only one person, others need a few on the side. But I think the other person (persons) deserve to know that about you before getting in to a relationship - Give them a chance to avoid being hurt in the end. But you can't blame them if they do. Love is mysterious, right? (~_~)

As for me, I would loathe myself if I ever cheated. But if it wasn't cheating, I don't think I'd have a problem with it. Though, I don't think I can say that without ever having experienced it either! lol

My mother would have a heart attack if she read this. xD

hookedondemonic December 27 2008, 04:36:32 UTC

Hehe! It's time for the over opinionated X- Church goers opinion! Mwuahahahahahahahahahahahah! **cough** <.Damn, I forgot what I was gonna say....**ponder** uhhhh Oh yea!! (brain is scattered, bare with me ( ... )

twilight_miko December 29 2008, 23:12:33 UTC

What the hell kind of point is point A?? LMAO! I nearly fell out of my chair... >_< *is still giggling while typing ( ... )

hookedondemonic January 2 2009, 02:58:57 UTC

I'm not even gonna try to explain the brother kissing thing!! toooooooooooo mind blowing... (in other words, I can't remember the point I was trying to make...haha)

For argues sake!!!
Boredum in bed was not the original topic! And even if it did become boring with said "one" person then you go to a god damn sex store! Not too difficult!
You don't have to have two lovers to have someone ALWAYS there for you. FAMILY, FRIENDS, etc.
Too much of one person can be a pain in the ass, but thats why they say "EVERY person in a relationship needs their own seperate life" And when they said that I don't think they meant an entirely differnt person to sleep with!!! >.< haha.

Mutual to go to? So your saying, that you and 1 lover is sick of lover 2, and you hang up on him/her?? Nice, not what I call 'love.'

udonobbsessed January 10 2009, 23:51:25 UTC

I think what she meant by "mutual between all participants" (and correct me if I'm wrong, Emily, or if I'm misunderstanding your point, Kamber) is that lover A is in love with lover B and lover C. Likewise, lover B is in love with lover A and lover C and lover C is in love with lover A and lover B. It could go on with more people, but for simplicity's sake, I kept it down to 3. But it's pretty cool that you guys don't have any ethical problems with the idea. I'm sure there are millions of people out there who would. And sexist, pig-headed men who would say only a man can have multiple lovers; women can only have one. The whole "men are bees, women are flowers" deal.

Now, were there any other points I wanted to make...? Kam, I don't get the kissing brother thing, either. If you ever remember what point you were trying to make, please let me know. >.< (and the "love is a fairy tale!" people piss me off, too. We're not living somewhere over the rainbow, people!) I also understand the jealousy thing. I almost said "especially with girls ( ... )