I need advices !!

[ueharaa]

it's been a long time since the last time I posted..
sorry for not replying to those who left comments on my last entry. But I very much agree with what you said and am thankful for the support ^__^

Life's going on and it's busy and .. hmm well as expected.

I shouldn't even be posting now but hmm I'm in DESPERATE need of advices.
So, here's the story:

Comments

[crysclear]

hey hey!

frankly, i have never meet this kind of problem before. but perhaps u can wait for a chance? or maybe there's a friend whom u two are close to, or kneo him. ask that friend for help?

[ueharaa]

none of my friend knows him >_>. But I never asked if some of my friends knew some of his friends.. thanks for the advice ^_~ and replying so fast!

[camr_jemr]

hmnnn...
maybe you can start addim him in facebook and introduce yourself and how you get his name (but of course do not admit you glimpsed at his paper, just say you asked around since you were seatmates in physics exam)
if he regularly checks his account, then that will give you an answer if he is interested in you as well.
well, this tactic was done by some of my friends and somehow went okay, so i hope this worked for you as well...
good luck on your lovelife!
~_^

[ueharaa]

that's what I wanted to do in the first place but I wondered if it was alright.. ? but I think I'll give it a try, (though I am scared to death..).. I hope it'll be alright for him to added by someone he doesn't know... thanks for the help ^_^ and for replying so fast!! and sorry to sound soo.. well, hm , like a beginner..? I am a beginner when it comes to these things anyway..

[camr_jemr]

hahaha... it's okay.
as what people here says: there's always the first time
just make sure you introduce yourself properly and how you get to meet him in the exam.
XD

[ueharaa]

well, since it seems the easiest soluiton I'll do so, just hope he won't think that I'm all over him .. >_>

[j_halo7]

Hmm... I've never experienced this before but if I were you, I'll add him on Facebook first. If he accpets without any questions asked, then you can use it to see what event's he's going etc and magically appear there. If you're afraid he'll ignore you without any mutual friends on Facebook, then add a couple of his other friends first. XD

If not, since you said you met at a physics test and you say he's smart, why not try and catch him alone in the library or wherever studying. Sit near him and ask him to help you with a question. Then after he helps you, say he looks really familiar and was he in that physics test.

Unless your have mutual friends, you really have to pluck up your courage and approach him.

Oh! Since you seem pretty good at stalking googling, maybe try finding out if he hangs out at any forums and chat him up there. They usually have the location of the user and then use that to start a private conversation. And when you worm your way to him finding out that your go to the same school, see if your can exchange

[ueharaa]

I guess I'll add him on facebook and thanks for "the mutual friend" tips I hadn't thought about it even once.
as for "catching him in the library", I've never seen him there. I don't even know if he comes there to study, but (again thanks to facebook), rather than going to the school's library, he seems to go to a public one.. I think Ill go there from times to times ^^.
Well, you're right, I know it'll be difficult because I know noone who knows him...>_>

forums? never thought about it.. !! but you're right . I'm going to try it as well.. though it'll be very difficult to find which forums he hangs out..

thank you very much for all of these suggestions ^_^ and of course, replying so fast !! ^_~v

[j_halo7]

For adding him on Facebook, I suggest you introduce yourself and how he was in your Physics test in the message section when adding someone as a friend. Because personally, I reject everyone whom I don't know, even with mutual friends. If someone writes in the message section how we met, no matter how weird or insignificant, I'll most probably add them back because at least I know they're not random strangers. ^^;

[eddictedd]

i think this is so common..like you see a person whom u think is potentially friend-able but he just doesn't know you XD i had this a couple of times XD but i'm really a chicken so i didn't take any initiatives to talk to them..haha

anyway, u know if you have any common friends? or friends' friends? or maybe u can try like really cliche methods like accidentally bumping into him or something, or just try to appear in front of him many times enough such that there'll come a time when the next time u meet each other, you can just nod and acknowledge like, "oh it's you again.." and maybe things will start from there... lOL

am i making any sense or not? XDDD
anyway, good luck!!

[ueharaa]

eh really? I thought I was probably the only girl out there who'd just want to get to know people for .. umm whatever reasons .. anyway,..I am also a "chicken"., you have no idea how scared I am actually...
friends'friends, umm maybe.. but .. still I .. *needs courage*
I had thought of the bumping and appear in front of him more often, that is "the most" natural method I think.. but our timeschedule really doesn't make it easy....

thank you so much for the tips. ^__^v

[nashe21]

I just read ur post now but i hope this advise of mine wont be too late. Im assuming ur taking the same class because you said ur taking an exam. On the day that you think will get ur result make sure you sit next to him and then maybe you can use ur exam results as an ice breaker :) Now as im typing this im not too sure if this will really work ^^' but it wont hurt to try right? maybe start a conversation out of nowhere like asking him on what he think about a particular physics stuff and so on. then later on, if you both agree on something maybe then you can introduce yourself. Im not good too at this kind of situations but lets just say this kind of things work on other people ;)

Goodluck!:D

-=Nashe21=-

[ueharaa]

no it's not too late, it's never too late !!!
Well, the thing is, we do not attend the same class, we have similar subjects (like maths physics, and so on) but we're in different section if I may say so.. This is the way Classe preparatoires in France work. Students are divided between sections according to whether they want to learn more maths, or more engineering science or more physics.. and well,so we're not in the same classroom so when we'll get our results I won't be with him. The fact that we did take an exam "together" was just "luck"..in fact..(it's not supposed to be so..)

but honestly, I'd totally apply what you said: asking a question, and introducing and so on.. I f only such an opportunity could happen..>_>

Thank you very much !!! ^________^