Is your life really all that bad?

[umino_koushi]

Anymore I read ranting and ravings on how bad people's lives are. Just how bad could it be? And if it is really all that bad why do you continue on living it and bitching about it. Either do something to change it or shut the fuck up you whiny assholes

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[_acerbitas_]

I hope I have not been to bitchy for you! :D *hugs* Yeah, sometimes people can be too bitchy, I guess, but for some reason I always feel bad for them. I think I'm a bleeding-heart. XD

[umino_koushi]

Nah you havent, not at all. *hugs back*
I do feel bad, over and over but I think I am just tired of people sucking the life out of me with their woe is me sob stories. *nod and sigh*

[_acerbitas_]

Aww, I'm so glad to hear that! *hugs*

That's okay, we can all get really fustrated sometimes, and I understand what you are saying. Especially when we get stupid annoymous posts. >___

[umino_koushi]

Yeah exactly! Especially when that person is being a total hypocrite over it....
OMG one of your eyes is missing!

[bubble]

Gee, I hope it wasn't me who upset you. But you're right, and I agree with you.

[umino_koushi]

No it wasnt you at all. I dont know if I could lay it on one single person. I think it is just a bunch of people and a bunch of things. One of those I cant take it anymore rants.

[anonymous]

Dude. You are so full of crap. That's what a fucking journal is for, TO GET OUT YOUR PROBLEMS. The whining, bitching, moaning and complaining kind of COMES WITH THE PACKAGE. Thats what life is all about. You can't be all chipper, skippy and sunshine constantly, and if someone wants to bitch about something, then they have every goddamn right to. If you don't want to read about it then -GASP- don't. What are you? Like twelve? Nobody anti-social OR bipolar would even want to admit to it anyways, let ALONE on Live Journal.

Oh, and complaining about everyone else complaining is REALLY smart.

[umino_koushi]

Anonymous. You had to post anonymously? Why not let me know who you are and how you, obviously, really feel about me and my post?

I, out of courtesy, read everyone's post on my friends list. I can apologize for going a bit overboard, as I know everyone needs a chance to rant. But what the post was mostly supposed to be was an eye opening thing. Too many people seem to let the bad overshadow the good and waste their lives away. If you took offense to my post then sure I apologize, but maybe talking to me about it like a rational person would have been a better plan. And unless you yourself are bi-polar how would you know? Seems like I really upset you, but this was not meant for that. It was as you so loudly stated, a comes with the package kind of deal. I was bothered by somethign and I ranted about it, just like you did and like everyone else does.

I find it funny that my first real ranting post gets such a negative response from someone who cannot even identify themselves.

[lunelight]

*ducks head in*

Hi. ^^; How I found this post is a rather long story, and if you think that a comment like this from someone who isn't on your friends' list is an invasion of your privacy, I'll gladly delete it.

I'd like to stick my neck out for the Anonymouse a bit. Because I agree with a majority of what I think they're trying to say, and because I think that the only thing that I disagree with is that they posted anonymously.

Out of curiousity, is this aimed at a specific person who's been doing this repeatedly, or is it aimed at people in general?

Because if it's aimed at people in general, well, I know that a majority of my friends' list puts posts like what you're describing under an lj-cut, with some kind of warning, and I know that I, for one, would be very offended if someone came into an lj-cutted post of mine and told me that I should stop "whining" in my own journal.

Because for some of us, our journals are the only places where we can talk about these kinds of things. And believe me, there are times when we'd love to

[umino_koushi]

No actually I do not consider it an invasion of my privacy, I could have put this under a friends cut if I felt so inclined but I did not

[umino_koushi]

Yeah martyrs can be pretty obnoxious. Sure it is wondrful that you have overcome something, I congratulate you. But it isnt necessary to talk about it constantly and each time that I see and or talk to you.

Woo! Go you! Now that is an amazing feat. To be so happy about that, and so comfortable with what is going on in your life. And yeah everyone has their ups and downs, with what has been happening lately I just had a down lol.

eheheh that made me crack up...the Tangent no jutsu lol

[cracked_shield]

wow...*snicker* after reading this, it's safe to say that bitching about your problems is a double-edged sword like anything else. You're damned if you, damned if you don't. You're a whiner if you go on about them, egotistical if you think you've done a good job on something.

There are those of us who have issues who are more than willing to accept them and be up front about them. Hell, all of my friends with mental/personality disorders are amongst the most honest and upright people I know. Says a lot about what a "disorder" is in this day and age, doesn't it? And none of them would be so petty or childish as to make low blows like that. Ah well.

Then there are some of us who angst simply because we have no choice. That is what a journal is for. And since this is a world wide community, why don't you be a decent citizen and act politely and conduct yourself with some dignity? I apologize on behalf of this moron Rachel. Now where's my gun...?

[umino_koushi]

Everything is a double-edged sword, you know that hun. If one persons bitches its whining if another one does they are a total bitch.

No my low blows are usually done in person to that persons face or over IM lol. If I even do that. I am up front about who and what I am, which is why we get along so very well.

Yeah like I said somewhere else, if I dislike what someone has said or if I htink thye are whining...guess what. I DONT COMMENT! Thats right I keep the thoughts to myself because, despite what that person thinks, I do not live my life to make others unhappy. You know yourself, being my best friend off the damn computer, that I try hard as hell to make others happy.

Bleh..