i suck at giving advice, honestly.. even if the same thing is going on with me (which *rereads* it is).
but it's good that you're gonna try and talk to people and make everything else better. i really do encourage it, though i don't know what the results will be. but i think you'll feel better after you do, knowing that other people know what's been on your mind and getting better grades after hard work and whatnot. also, if you're not going away over spring break, give someone a call. i know you're thinking 'oh, well they don't call me.. why should i call them?' but maybe they're thinking the same thing, and that could lead to some bad stuff. it doesn't even have to be your house; go to a movie or something.
eh, i don't know, i tried to help the best i can. feel better though. =\ ♥
Here goes...frozenemeraldApril 11 2005, 14:16:41 UTC
I know how you feel - just what you didn't want to hear, I know. But take it from me, I was where you are. I went through a period of about 5 years when I thought no one cared about me and no one showed any interest in what I said or did. It doesn't get any easier. The thing is, you have to see how strong you are. The fact that you can admit you have some sort of problem is good. It's probably not a medical problem. It's more of a you're a teen and almost all teens go through this phase problem. People don't call, but it's a two way thing. You understand this, which is good. Instead of wanting people to come over to your house, take small steps and go out to a movie or the mall or something. As for talking to people and trying to get advice, it's hard to do at this point in life because everyone else is also having this inner battle of feeling like no one cares. They're as good at faking it as you are. To be honest, it's a very hard thing to go through, because essentially, you're going through it alone. You must realize
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thanks kon, and actually today i talked to jess kao about it kinda haha and that did help.. and yeah like everyone is going thru the same things and all.. but dayum life is hard man!
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but it's good that you're gonna try and talk to people and make everything else better. i really do encourage it, though i don't know what the results will be. but i think you'll feel better after you do, knowing that other people know what's been on your mind and getting better grades after hard work and whatnot. also, if you're not going away over spring break, give someone a call. i know you're thinking 'oh, well they don't call me.. why should i call them?' but maybe they're thinking the same thing, and that could lead to some bad stuff. it doesn't even have to be your house; go to a movie or something.
eh, i don't know, i tried to help the best i can. feel better though. =\ ♥
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