I've come to terms.

[understand_mia]

I've realized that not many people like me, I know I give many reasons not to like me, but when I don't even know people and they don't like me based on what other people have said about me, it kind of upsets me

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[melissa_06]

here's what i have to say, as a stranger, who has a lot to say about a lot of things.

first of all, anyone who says that they think someone else "thinks they're better than everyone." almost always thinks they're better than that person, & even more likely, thinks they're better than about half the people on their myspace friends list.

second of all, you are original from what i can tell. so, fuck that.

i don't care what anyone has to say - in my opinion, the saying is true, that people only talk about other people in a harsh way to make themselves feel better. people call you fake to prove their individuality - "oh, look at how cool i am by labeling this person as superficial...what a superficial thing of me to do." c'mon.

in the long run - i think you're a real live person, so good for you :) expressing your feelings is original in itself, it comes straight from you - no one else. & as you said, you've got bigger things to deal with than people who make you feel small. so again, good for you.

k done :)

[understand_mia]

thank you :D

[pinuppaperdoll]

your only human. even if you are any of that (which I definitely don't know you well enough to say whether you are or aren't), its pretty basic human, especially teenage, actions and emotions. maybe become a bit a more conscious as to how you come off. you seem pretty self-aware though, so i think if you do have flaws, you know them better than anyone else.

and also, you are going through an incredibly bad rough patch right now from what i've picked up, and you should not have to just get over it and act cheerful again. feel whatever it is thats going on. be sad if you feel sad.

Peace, Olive.

[understand_mia]

thank you so much.

[timeiswarped]

I don't really believe that anyone can be "fake". Everyone is different, everyone is unique, even if occasionally you come across this one person who tries to copy off someone else. If you enjoy what you do, and are aware of who are you, that's all you and no one can take that away from you. Also, people who think they can judge a person according to their myspace profile page are dumb. It's an online source that barely gives away a part of who you are. Seriously, what do they expect, for you to write pages on end explaining yourself down to every little detail?

I don't know you, I've never met you, but I've seen your photographs for one thing, and it seems to me you actually embrace your individuality better than most of the people I've actually known and met.

I hope you get through all of your rough patches, and I'm sure you will. There appear to be a lot of strangers who sympathize with you and try to help, and that's more than anyone can say.

I hope that helped :]

[understand_mia]

thank you, it did help.

[glamourous_coma]

everyone's going to react to people differently y'know,
the whole world can't like you,
and you the same with them.
i'm sure the people that matter to you most,
know you're not unpleasant etc.
just focus on trying to keep your chin up.
how did you brothers sugery go?

<3

[understand_mia]

thank you.

and my brothers surgery went okay, initially they told us they got 99% of his tumor out, finds out they only got 75%.

I don't know what the next step is, but I think it's spot radiation.

[buried]

Hi there! It's Josa (pointingbone), I'm switching back to my old username (this one), cuz it's filled with lots and lots of memories, blah blah blah. I'm really sorry, but add me again? :)

[understand_mia]

done!