This would be much more harsh if I didn't consider you one of my best friends. First of all, you don't really have a right to say any of this because you never post on lj, so why only do it to bitch us all out? Lj is a place to vent, every one is so emo, but hey its better to get it out than complaining day in and day out. Roughly 99.9% of my lj friends only complain ON lj.... NEVER in person; they are always so happy. I admire their strnegth for that. I know that you are going through a rough time. Seeing those people at the YMCA made me think about a lot of things. But that still doesn't keep me from feeling like shit lately. I would like to leave you with a thought provoking quote (from The Outsiders)that means a lot to me. "It's rough all over." The whole book is an amazing lesson about life, which I hope you will learn. I love you Melissa.
Re: RightunderstanditNovember 15 2001, 19:32:27 UTC
i dunno who u are. but i'd appreciate if u left a name just cuz i like to know who i'm talking to. having a boyfriend has nothing to do with this i had been single for while....i don't think it should bring people down so much to be single...maybe everyone on livejournal can hate me for writing sucha "mean and harsh" thing about life. but thats what my thoughts were.
wow that was incredibly harsh- you are lucky to realize that life is so precious, but some people haven't yet had the privledge of learning that lesson, and they certainly aren't going to get it from you telling them they are stupid, trite and pointless. Don't ever ever belittle someone else's problems, because it could very well be the worst thing they have ever gone through. you know i love you, i think you were just mad before, and after all, that's what livejournal is for.
GET OVER YOURSELFkriketgNovember 15 2001, 18:12:20 UTC
Really? because all of you are entitled to your opinion like she is hers, Get off her back about it, because shes right. did you ever think that maybe being " alone " doesnt exist? because you are never alone. Because there is alway someone who cares, even if they dont have the title boyfrend or girlfriend. How does it feel to know that you have a problem, which ples in comparison o actual problems? People lose people so important to them everyday. I understand you wouldn't understand until you'v experienced a loss, but understand too that you won't get it ever unless you step outsideand look in, and none of you who are bitching at one of my best friends for having a completely valid are doing that. Get off your pedistals and admire and respect those of us who have been unfortunate enough to have to go through something that brings us one step close to understanding real life.
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