A little rant at too early in the morning

Jul 24, 2006 00:35

How many of you have ever been in a bad relationship? I have a question, was the problem the way that that other person treated you, or was it the fact that you let them do it to you. Think about this…. That way I phrased the question implies that these are the only two choices there are. But in real life its so much more. it’s the way they ( Read more... )

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frayedges July 24 2006, 08:22:23 UTC
Ack. Wee hours. Need paragraph breaks to fully process:-p

Nonetheless, I think I get what you're saying. There's also a country song I love that has the lyrics, "He's the one who will be missing you, and you'll only miss the man that you wanted him to be" which I think can have a lot to do with it- you love what you keep waiting for the person to be, because you just know how great that would be.

The most problematic relationships I've had tend to become so when the two people stop understanding each other- worse, that they don't care that they don't understand each other, and just go on thinking they understand each other when each knows that the other doesn't understand them at all. It's such a terrible feeling.

If only life were so simple that everything could always be narrowed down to one problem, easily changeable and could be quickly made right.

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zomg post sexkittie July 26 2006, 22:02:39 UTC
"You cant force what you don’t feel, you cant imitate those things that would otherwise be freely given."

mm... yes. I like this.

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stephaniedenise August 7 2006, 21:08:42 UTC
hey kiddo. relationships are made up of a zillion feelings...but i think when you start to turn "wow he/she is such a great person...im so lucky" to "wow...he/she is such a great person...i dont know what id do if they ever left" thats when it turns sour. because instead of enjoying the moment to the fullest...you begin to wig out and worry about things that may or may not happen..sometimes the fear of losing someone wonderful can ulktimnately become the reason you lose them...i dont know if that makes any sense..im just knda talking from my own experiences.

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stephaniedenise August 7 2006, 21:09:53 UTC
btw that strangely spelled word is ultimately

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