Posted on Facebook May 21, 2016
What if almost everyday your husband said "shut that cat up.
One day I'm going to slit her throat. I'll put her in a box and ship her to NY when your gone" (I know he meant it too sometimes things he didn’t like would disappear. Like for my birthday the year before I bought a long hair poney-tail clip attachment and he threw it away the day I was wearing it behind my back. He thought I would attract to much attention or some dumb shit.)
How do you take it if your husband buys food for himself at a place you don't like to eat. Buys you a meal from this place. Takes it home. Leaves it on the table. Then later on tells you "since you've been a good girl I bought you a treat eat that" what am I your fucking dog? (He always bought dollar menu fast food that I couldn’t eat and didn’t like, was hella nasty cold.)
What if your husband claimed his step daughters as his own daughters. (He told everyone publicly they were his.) Once was involved with helping them in school. But over the last 3 years of them being in high school he wanted nothing to do with these daughters school, refuses to pay for food and really refused sharing food he bought screaming at them if he touch "his food" and hiding his food all the time, and the only time he talks to them now is to tell them to clean up and do chores talking down at them while he lays in a pile of his own filth, clothes, underwear, shoes all in the living room. He says it's his right to do so because he pays half the rent.