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Sep 16, 2004 20:02

You know what makes me laugh, when young girls have babies and then all of a sudden think they are the most mature person in the world. Now dont get me wrong, im sure having a baby makes you grow up quite a bit. But for some reason, most of them always get this attitude like "im better than you, dont even try talking to me because I have a life now ( Read more... )

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oursweetromance September 16 2004, 20:07:20 UTC

I have no idea who this is directed to but I have a baby and it does make you a little more mature than people who don't have babies. Your whole life is about your child so yeah it does make you more mature.

unqshortie1221 September 17 2004, 07:32:07 UTC

it makes you more mature then you were before you had your baby.....definitly. but not more mature than everyone.

oursweetromance September 17 2004, 07:56:27 UTC

You are absolutely right. But when you have friends who still haven't really grown up you are just a lot more mature then they are. I know for me it's hard to even relate to people who aren't mothers because they can still do there own thing and are all about there lives and I am all about my daughter pretty much so it's two different worlds. They talk about parties and all that and I am talking about being up all night and diapers and bottles. And they have no idea what that is like. Anyway I have no idea but if this is directed to me someone you really don't even know then i don't know..

unqshortie1221 September 17 2004, 16:26:54 UTC

Stacey, no offense, but why would this be about you? Your right,I dont you at all, so why would I write something about you in my journal?

supaman3k1 September 16 2004, 21:41:35 UTC

All i have to say to this comment is i do agree with you in some ways.. i mean it does make u smarter having a baby because there is so much you have to learn... but if it was not planned then you have to remember the stupid mistake you made in the first place..
I also am not saying its a bad thing at all, but just because some people do not act liek they are mature does not by any means mean that they can not act it..
it just means we get to live the life of kid games and being immature a little longer.. god knows no one really wants to grow up.. atleast no one i know

i agree with you anonymous September 17 2004, 09:38:37 UTC

having a baby has NOTHING to do with maturity. obviously. thats why people end up with 5 kids before the age of 25. just because your a mother, it doesnt mean your a great one, and it certainly doesnt mean you know more then someone who doesnt have a baby. i know a few young people who have babies, and the only things that have changed, are their lives, not their maturity level or smarts. having a baby is having a baby. anyone can do it if they want to. so i think people shouldnt act like their above everyone else just because they are jealous that they cant do the same things you can. my mother had a baby at a young age. my mom is one of the wisest, most mature people i know, and having a baby isnt what did it.

Re: i agree with you unqshortie1221 September 17 2004, 16:25:24 UTC

thats exactly how I feel. thanks for your opinion.

wolviegirlie84 September 17 2004, 21:06:40 UTC

well since ppl are posting their opinion i feel strongly that i should. i think having a baby has lots to do with maturity. sex is a mature and adult, responsible decision, and if you choose to do it, you must learn to live with the consequenses, whether that be a baby or a std. if you were matur and responsible then you would have worn a condom or just not have had sex!when you have a baby, its not about you anymore, its all about the baby. no more being selfish. yeah so i know anyone can have a baby, but if you put it that way then it sounds like a job or something, and its a life we're talkin about here. having a baby changes your whole life and your perspective on life for that matter. a baby requires your undevided attention, 24/7, you cant just turn it on or off when you want, you cant just leave it when you are tired with it. my mom had me at 19 and before me she was a hard core druggie, having me changed her life, it made her a responsible mature adult. if i wouldn't have come along, she would be in rehab right now or dead. my ( ... )

unqshortie1221 September 18 2004, 03:35:40 UTC

your totally right. But your missing the point. I already said that having a baby definitly makes you more mature and grown up then you were before that baby. but it doesnt make you more mature and smarter then everyone. If you read through it again im sure you'll see.

wolviegirlie84 September 18 2004, 14:21:45 UTC

you're right i did skip the point, sorry about that. but yeah i agree- having a baby doesnt necessarily make you smarter or for that matter more mature, it makes you mature in a different way. someone who doesnt have a baby, for example-you-holds down a job, pay all your bills, you're in a healthy relationship and thats awesome, you're responsible and mature and i'm sure you could handle a baby just fine. on the other hand, someone who does have a baby, has the resopnsiblity of a mother(hopefully), but they could be irresponsible and mature in other aspects, like no job no school, etc. so i guess it all depends on the person and the situation, you can't classify everyone in a group.