I am reminded of when I was rebuffed by a girl I really liked because I was nice to her.
the times i have done things like that were when i was heartbroken because the person i was in love with had left me, and i was in a muddle and afraid of getting close to anyone else for fear they would do the same thing. actually, i still have residuals from that; i haven't been able to have a serious relationship since. so maybe it was something like that.
And thinking about this new situation further, Are a lot of punk/counterculture girls self-hating women? Female misogynists?probably not self-hating, but maybe confused. people generally don't know how to deal with their issues of love and abandonment from way back when and they walk around in a fog, and their issues come out in strange ways. that doesn't really answer the question, but i don't know enough about the situation to really answer. i think maybe they just don't know what they are doing or what they want or what is at the bottom of it (themselves
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the times i have done things like that were when i was heartbroken because the person i was in love with had left me, and i was in a muddle and afraid of getting close to anyone else for fear they would do the same thing. actually, i still have residuals from that; i haven't been able to have a serious relationship since. so maybe it was something like that.
And thinking about this new situation further, Are a lot of punk/counterculture girls self-hating women? Female misogynists?probably not self-hating, but maybe confused. people generally don't know how to deal with their issues of love and abandonment from way back when and they walk around in a fog, and their issues come out in strange ways. that doesn't really answer the question, but i don't know enough about the situation to really answer. i think maybe they just don't know what they are doing or what they want or what is at the bottom of it (themselves ( ... )
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