The Risks of Dating

[upthebuttboy]

When you are single, there is one dreadful thing that you will constantly have to face: the possible horror of a first date.Did I really want to go through all that again? What's the point? It's not like I'm going to meet "the one" at nineteen (I don't even know if they exist), so it's bound to end with a break up. I'm going to reject them, or they

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[gatinho69]

You are extremely cute so I don't understand why you have had such bad luck with other guys. Plus you seem sensitive which is usually the missing ingredient with many gay men.

[upthebuttboy]

Awww. Thank you, I appreciate that. :)

Thanks.

[upthebuttboy]

It is tough until you really figure each other out and what the other one wants... YES! That's been the reason for almost every single break up I've had in the past year.

A second date? I don't know, nothing was planned.

I'll add you to my friends list :)

[upthebuttboy]

hahaha a few posts ago it was VERY graphic - it was what got me in trouble last night, being in that sort of mood (you might say) and being drunk - lol.

I'm exactly the same way about dating. I almost always date older guys in their twenties, and it scares them off. They just want to enjoy the ride, and enjoy the twenties. It's comforting to know I'm not the only like that!

I thought I was just emotionally slutty, and scaring guys off! lol. But I think there's something to be said for being on the same page, and knowing what they want. I would rather be single, and know what's going on, than be dating a guy and be stuck in the dark.

[djrayray]

I agree. From what I have seen of you on here- you are a wonderful guy, sensitive, fun, cute, and wanting to make someone super happy. I'm hoping that you will find this guy soon- but remember, I am, along with so many others on here who are, always here for you!

[upthebuttboy]

Aw, thanks Ray!

I'll find this guy soon? That's a laugh and a half!! No, I have a feeling I'll be single for awhile, and I'll be experiencing many first dates in the future.

But it's nice to have someone to vent to about them in livejournal, if they do go bad. :)

[lust_in_phaze]

Why do you feel that you won't find "the one" at nineteen? It's totally possible I've seen it happen!

I'll admit being a little older than you that when I spend time with someone such as yourself I can't help but make references sometimes to the age thing but I don't mean to make you feel bad for being younger just that sometimes there are differences because of it, and I'm curious to understand those differences.

I agree, everyone needs to take your advice and just enjoy life, but keep an open mind to the possibilities that exist and don't just assume because of your age that something isn't meant to happen yet, you might just surprise yourself :)

[cathedralheat]

lol i have the drunk dialing problem too i finally had to take certain people out of my phone so i would stop doing that.

[upthebuttboy]

lol. The problem is I have some people's number memorized. I'm good at that. damn.

[cathedralheat]

that'll teach ya