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Hello!
Has any one every came up to you can asked why your all dressed up, and they are being rude about it? Or have you ever been at a meet up, started to eat and dont know what fork to use or how to act? What about your hosting some very inmportant guest and want to make sure everything goes right? Or maybe you're just like me and want to start acting 'proper'.
I have searched the internent far and wide to come up with some useful tips on how to be 'proper.' Now you dont have to live buy them to the fullest, but you can tweak these tips to fit your life style. Some you may agree with others you wont, but its your distion on which you'll take to heart. If you would like to add (or correct me; we are all human) feel free to, I will gladly welcome them.
To start things off, we'll begin with table mannors;
- I am guilty of this as is many of us; Never eat with your mouth full. If you are talking and get cought with a question, chew before talking. It also helps if you take small (decent) bites; it wont take as long to chew.
- Excuse your self if you have to get up and leave, such as blowing your nose, snease, or something else.
- Try not to put your elbows on the table. I have a hard time remembering this one myself.
- The rule of thumb is with silverware, is to use outside in. And always use the silverwear provided, unless the food calls for you to use your fingers.
- If you cant reach something, ask.
- Tear off your bread rather than biting into the whole roll; once again I'm guilty.
- Try not to pick your teeth, or groom yourself at the table. (Unless you have a loli-emergencey ^^)
Everyday Etiquette
- When greeting someone, it's always best to say, "Hello Judy," or, "Hello Mr. Smith," rather than "Hi," or, "How's it goin'?" If another person is with you, always make introductions immediately after shaking hands.
- If they offer their hand, take it and shake it. Not a lose grip, it makes you look worried and fearful, but not to hard, dont want to seem to agressive.
- Never interrupt when someone is speaking.
- One of my biggest pet-peave is not saying 'Please', 'Thank you', 'You're welcome' or such.
- Consider the age of those around you. Some language or behavior may be inappropriate for children to witness.
- Cover your mouth when coughing or sneezing.
Sources:
http://www.howtodothings.com/food-and-drink/a3140-how-to-use-proper-etiquette.html
http://www.howtodothings.com/food-and-drink/a3122-how-to-use-table-manners.html