one of you has read this before. thought I'd post it on here, but it's shorter, and a tad different

[usedbacon]

Love. It's more than a thought. More than an action. More than words. It's something uncontrollable. Something that can make you fell so great. Something that can tear you to pieces. Is it a want? Is it a need? A little of both I say. More so need. It's so terrible that you can love someone so much and not receive the same, but I guess that's how

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[ironplatapus]

"True feelings don't change in an instant, because then, they were never real anyway."

sorry but i am going to have to harp on you. what happened to the feelings you had for the other girls its seems as those changed in an instant? what makes you able to validify your feelings for her since your attitude for certain females is so volitile and seemingly so fleeting? i think you may need to reevaluate what the feeling of love is and what the feeling of lust is. i am not saying the feelings you have are not valid, but what i am saying is rather than expressing them in deeply vague terms act upon them so that your feelings are not percived incorrectly. love is more than an action, but that is where it starts. you need to percive your feelings from another prospective, and not allow teen angst and the over flow of chemicals in your body fog up your perception.

still your friend just concerned,
Dan

[usedbacon]

I'm not a very visual person. I keep my feelings hidden. I still haven't got over two certain females. I have a problem with showing my feelings, rather, I write them down. I think it's because, I'm not sure how to act upon my feelings

[ironplatapus]

"I have a problem with showing my feelings"

its not that you don't know how to act upon them its just you lack the confidence to act upon them. its a fight or flight sort of thing. your put in a confrentation and you are given 2 choices fight or flight or in your case fight or play a passive role. because inside you feel playing a passive role is safe you can be with the person and not risk revealling your feelings and scareing them away. be more instinctual. don't allow fear or doubt come into play. it sounds dumb but be like a crank head. when a crank head needs crank it will do whatever to get it. be the crank head, but in a healthy way. remember fight or flight is not just about the physical world but also that of the emotional world.