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[utopic_elysium]

You know what's funny? When someone who calls themselves your best friend and who is supposed to be your maid of honor in your wedding in a month starts randomly hanging out with your ex-boyfriend. Tells you that they're only going to hang out once and then calls you a few weeks later to let you know that she fucked him and they're dating. Tells

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[luna_lorien]

kristy...you never progressed since high school. your maturity level is still the same as it was back then. it did just happen. it's not my fault kevin is a great guy. you dated him when you were 15. you're married. i think maybe you should step back and reevaluate yourself. you can't always the be center of attention. i can't believe you thought i was with him to make you jealous. how sad. you had nothing to do with it...that's what you can't swallow. we're adults and i can date whomever i choose. i'm confused on why you think you have a say in it or lay claim to certain people

[luna_lorien]

also...don't say shit about kevin. you knew him 5 years ago and he's a completely different person. don't try to evaluate someone and say their fucked up when you don't know them. he's amazing in ways i don't think you'll ever experience. i can't express how great of a guy he is.

[utopic_elysium]

I was wondering if you could inform me in which part of my journal there was 'childish bickering and name calling

[luna_lorien]

here is the name calling. i knew it would surface. you can think i'm a slut, that's ok. your opinion and view point lost value a long time ago for me. also...anna read this and thanks you for a good laugh.

i'm antisocial in situations that aren't fun for me. i didn't know most of the people at your wedding and i had no desire to. i could care less what they said about me.

i'm not going to personally attack you like a child and refute every falsity you spew at me. i haven't gone through 4 years of college to be flung back into high school all over again.

[in_naked_wonder]

Hey Kristy

[utopic_elysium]

Honestly, I've known Tiff for quite some time and I think that she really didn't care how I felt about her hanging out with Kevin. Tiff has always been the kind of person to do things that benefit her whether anyone else cares or not. And yes, she has gone out of her way to do things for other people. I'm not saying she's a horrible person. I'm just saying she likes things to go her way

[luna_lorien]

yes, i would have done it anyway. and ya know why? because i personally don't see anything wrong with it. grow up. you're married. you would purposely bar the chance of two other people being happy together because you once dated him 5 years ago? you're all obsessed with me hanging out with kevin to spite you or upset you when he's made me a better and happier person. we enjoy each other's company so much and we spend a lot of our free time together. so because of some obsession with the past we are not allowed to enjoy each other? i can picture a rule of not dating ex's in high school, but aren't we supposed to mature after that and get over things?

this is extreme selfishness that i don't understand. everyone is a little bit selfish. i can be more than a little sometimes. but you're happily married and you won't let two other people be happy in each other's company? it just seems to infantile.

[luna_lorien]

i've also realized something. our friendship was in high school and we've both changed too much, but we didn't want to let go.

anna has one ex-boyfriend. in the past, we've talked about if we both met ex's we wouldn't flirt and definitely not date them. but i actually think that if i met her ex and we fell for each other and made each other happy and she saw this, she'd let it happen cause she loves me. but then i thought, if i saw the hurt in her eyes and knew she was upset, i'd give it up 'cause she means more to me than any guy who comes along. she's always been there for me, she knows me better than i know myself.

we don't have that. at least i haven't with you since high school. you were never the friend to me that anna is and i was never the friend to you that i am to her. maybe it's because i know she'd sacrifice a tiny peace of her comfort and happiness inorder for me to be happy and i'd do the same for her.

good luck with everything.

[anonymous]

Your married.
SO..get the fuck over your first time.

[utopic_elysium]

Wow...you know what else is funny? When people who try to be bad ass post anonymously. Way to be tough on that one. Oh...and by the way 'your' when meaning 'you are' is spelled 'you're'.