Past and history show an odd bias for people. Most seem to accept that the past is in some definite sense fixed, finished, set--done. What it was it forever will be. Or, to put it dumbly, the past is done. The future, however, hasn't 'happened' yet, and so is not set--still to be determined
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"So why do we project our hopes into the future, which is uncertain, troublesome, and almost frightening in its obscurity, and yet regard the past as a cage of obligations, regrets, or perhaps bygone glories? Should not the past seem more like an old friend, the close counselor who holds our wisdom--the lessons of our experience--and the roots of our personality."
Now you're sounding like Elizabeth Bowen. She has an essay called "The Bend Back" which contains the same sentiment.
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Thanks for giving me good points to ponder now that I have survived Accreditation Canada.
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*shrug*
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I'm more flattered someone liked it enough to think it worth repeating. :)
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So why do we project our hopes into the future, which is uncertain, troublesome, and almost frightening in its obscurity, and yet regard the past as a cage of obligations, regrets, or perhaps bygone glories? Should not the past seem more like an old friend, the close counselor who holds our wisdom--the lessons of our experience--and the roots of our personality. The past knows us best. And what is so free in the future? The threat of tomorrow holds repetition, duty, the unknown. The future is a test, not a promise.
I just wanted to point out one more aspect of our emotional relation to the past and future - we can dread future pain, but with past pain we just say "thank god that's over". It's hard to make sense of that.
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There's an interesting psych experiment lurking somewhere in these waters.
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