Sexxxtrology and Saturn's Return

[vagus_nerve]

Note: This entry is a very filtered coffee klatch of my bestest lj homies.

Whoa so look what happens, my shrink goes on a three-week cruise to the Antarctic and I end up becoming a convert to astrology. I could have saved so much money and time if I had just realized that I am in the motherfucking throes of Saturn's Return. Thank god my new age

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[sinndar]

Ooh, that kind of flirting is fun. :)

Good for you for not taking it too far though. You have some serious restraint, woman.

I think the reason we can't practice free love is because more often than not, when you give it away, you regret it later. (Well, that's been my experience anyway.) There was one that I'll never forget/regret though. It's just hard to know where that line is drawn ahead of time, especially when you're slightly schnockered!

[vagus_nerve]

Yes, it was super hard to turn that one down. Unfortunately there are way too many issues with this one. Like I said, we're practically family. There are too many bonds between our family and friends. We're all going to Hawaii together for two weeks, where his girlfriend is living, a girl I really respect and love. My boyfriend and I are moving toward a place of greater independence from each other to try new relationships or whatever, and the hotties might have an understanding too, but it's just so not worth it.

If you want, you can tell about the one you never regretted. This is an intimate coffee klatch here. :)

Oooh, okay

[sinndar]

Believe it or not, it was the complete stranger that I picked up at the Ritz Carlton. (I never do stuff like that!)

However, hooking up with people I have had "relationships" with has been ending very badly lately. With this guy, there was no past, no strings, no inhibitions. It was without a doubt one of the best times I've ever had.

Re: Oooh, okay

[vagus_nerve]

That's exactly what John thinks I should do. I dunno, I never really fantaize about sex with strangers, but that could be super hot. Did you know that there are super high-end gigolos women can hire in cities like LA and London? I'm supposed to go to London for business again this spring, what if I could have a hot ESCORT the whole time?!?!? Too bad shit is like 1000s of dollars.

http://www.malecourtesan.com/

[cakecrumb]

i don't think it's impossible or unethical..i just think most people approach it more as "free lust" and are scheming dishonest douches about how they navigate through and operate in sexually open relationships. i don't know, sleeping with people who are basically family is always sort of messy weird and guilt inducing...our close inner crowd is so small and insular, you always get the pseudo incestual pairings. jesse( finn's godfather and my ex fiance and childhood sweetheart of 10+ years) was alex's first roommate and best man at his first marriage. everyone is just a vagina or penis removed, six degrees of sex'eration.

blah blah blah, it's good and healthy to flex your flirting muscles hard. it keeps blood flowing to all the important places.

ps. love you and miss you jess <3

[vagus_nerve]

Yeah, totally true man. The main criticism of the Ethical Slut (the book) is whether the whole thing is a just a well-written massive rationalization for irresponsible promiscuity. I was joking to John that the best use of it is to memorize the lines to use as game when you're trying to pick someone up: "Listen, it's very simple. When I see someone that intrigues me, I like to feel free to respond. Don't worry, I don't want a relationship. I just want to learn more about myself by fucking you

[vagus_nerve]

P.S. I love you and miss you too too much. We really need to figure out when our meeting is going to happen.

[zulkey]

man, I still have to say, soak up the romance of it all though despite your other qualms. those memories will keep you warm for winters to come.

I'd like to smoke a big fattie fattie with you and chew your ear off a bit about my particular situation. maybe buy you a treat too to compensate for having to listen to boy-talk.

[vagus_nerve]

Well, when's the soonest we can do that? I'm free tonight...