You have a good heart, and that's a very admirable quality. I know you want to help him, but in this case, the only one who can help him is himself - he has to make up his mind to do the right thing and get his life back together. I know you want to help him do that, but really, what's going to end up happening is that he's going to take you down with him. If he doesn't have the drive and dedication to give up his bad habits and stop making impulsive, poor decisions, you being his anecdote will only last so long before you no longer work, and soon, it's going to be you falling into the same rut that he's put himself in. I know it's tough, but you need to consider what is best for you in this case. Personally, I think it's best for you to cut your losses and move on. He will only bring you down and cause problems for you until he gets his life on order. Once his life is in order, and you decide you still want to be with him, then pursue something. But right now, he seems to be a wreck. Before you can share a life with someone else, you
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