Am I being a bad friend?

[vampygurl]

Because sometimes I think about all those little e-mails going around that say things like "If you go to jail I won't bail you out I'll be sitting right there with you talking about how great that was."((yeah I'd still do that with Dianna...)) and I can't help but think that maybe I'm NOT doing the right thing in trying to help her see how things

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[sunnyblossoms]

Justin talking:

I wouldn't say your a bad friend. Actually... And I don't mean this in a asshole way. That is some of the most caring for another person I have ever seen from you.

But the problem is, Both of you see things in two different lights. From my ADD reading. It seems she wants to be happy and thinks running off with another girl will be the answer. When in reality it isn't. You think a high paying job and and having calm in your life is the answer.

I've been in the same spot with my friends before. Only to keep them around and have it burn me. Just let her do her thing. Tell her how you feel. Keep being a friend. When she comes crying back to you. Just tell her I told you so and you don't want to hear it.

Anyways, That is my Half-wit advice. Take it how you like.

[vampygurl]

yeah thats how I'm planning on working with it, but it's hard for me to turn her away when she's crying and if she gives this job up she won't be able to come back! It'll be me getting the crying phone calls from across the GD country! I'm thinking if she moves it'll be the easiest case of out of site out of mind and I'll be able to get rid of her, which is what I really need to do. She's crazy and she's going to give up her med's and therapy for some girl in a town where she'll be drownding in drugs and alcohol when she's recovering from addiction already... She doesn't think she's addicted but she's said that if it's put in front of her then she can't help but do it, if thats not addiction I don't know what is... I would try to help anyone I know like this but I would think she would listen to me a little more then other people... I'm just glad you agree with me on some things and I'm not just saying the wall is blue when it's pink... and my Favorite thing to say about red right now, "Trying to talk common sense into her is

[gpsypiratelady]

you know i'm always up for doing stupid stuff with you babe!

[halabis]

yer not allowed to go to jail!!!