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[vanillafridays]

I don't know when i became the heartbreaker. nobody ever wants to hurt anybody else. i admire the strength it must have taken for you to stand by decisions that had effects like this. i have to try and be that strong. and deal with the down of being the bad guy

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[white_adagio]

I really liked reading this, and agreed on a lot of the points. Especially on the marriage front - I mean, scientifically, our brains aren't even fully developed until our early twenties, and there's so much to figure out and discover about ourselves before making such a commitment to somebody else..

On top of that, I think if you're really with the right person, you'll want to cherish and enjoy every stage of being together and use it to the fullest - being his girlfriend, being his fiance, etc.. They're all exciting and shouldn't be rushed! ;)

Anyway, I hope things clear up in the np group, and that some lines of communication become more open and clear to prevent misinterpretation. :)

The more I see you mature and come into your own like this, the more excited for your life I become, and the more I really want to go to lunch with you again when we're in the same state. :D

[akayath]

Sometime right after July 27th = You + Me + (lunch? the beach? coffee?).

Deal?

(Like Rashel said - you hit a ton of nails on the head there... I completely agree - but being (thankfully?) out of the NP bubble I am confused. It sounds like everything's ok - but do you want to talk about it? We need to meet up as soon as I get back - or send me an email. We used to have great online conversations anyway! Can't wait to see you!)