Highschool much?

[vanyd]

Ok, so a friend of mine just broke up with her boyfriend, and I feel bad for her, I truly do, but she's acting like a 15 year old! Basically, both of them are myspace freaks. So my friend, every day, checks his myspace, uses codes to bypass his hidden wall so she can read his comments, and uses her fake myspace page to friend people he's friends

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[ramgor]

Just ew.

You need to get her away from the computer and say something along the lines of, "what do you hope to accomplish with all this stalking?" and then ask her, "do you think he does the same thing for you, or has he moved on?"...."don't you deserve more than that? Or do you think maybe insecurity and heartbreak has gotten the better of you?"

[vanyd]

Oh, trust me, I've given her that talk more than once. In fact, after I gave it to her yesterday, she talked to her brother who said the same damn thing. Then two other people came by and said the same shit today. She sat in a corner and moped about it (while constantly checking his myspace), and then we ditched her because we couldn't deal with her bubble of negativity. While we were gone I guess she did some self therapy? She basically wrote a note on facebook saying how she's done hurting herself, because in the end, that's all she was doing. Then she wrote a letter to the guy, all the stuff she wanted to say to him, but knows she never will say. That seemed to have helped... :/

[ramgor]

well good! That all sounds like good therapy. I'm sorry that she's mirroring her feelings, i hate it when people do that. It's funny because right when you started writing about this, my friend started doing the SAMMMMME crap....